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no, because like i say, if i was interested in someone, but then i saw them getting very talkative to another girl, i would be tempted to back off and let them start their relationship. It's especially the case when ur tempted to like someone but arent too sure.
 
Oh!!! I get it now. Anyways I guess I'll try. But... I'll give it some time. Thanks.
 
i don't usually like stuff like this >>
but if i'm here......i have this friend who has this girl that likes him,but he doesn't wanna go out with her anymore because he's back with this other girl he's known a long long time. but he doesn't know how to tell nina, erm....this other girl without hurtin her feelinz >>
any advice for this guy?? <<;
 
hi DF dadragonz? how r u? ^_^ i'm toruko-jin-selim and i wonder if u can help me? ^^

i'm one of these boys who is very nice and i would treat a girl with respect and stuff and i don't cheat

but i have bad luck with girls, whenever i ask a girl out or try to get to know a girl, i just get rejected straight away -_- and they say i'm not thier type......:( i've been getting the same thing for years now, i think maybe i'm ugly.... -_-0 please help me, i need help with my love life..... :'(
 
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darkblastoise89 said:
i don't usually like stuff like this >>
but if i'm here......i have this friend who has this girl that likes him,but he doesn't wanna go out with her anymore because he's back with this other girl he's known a long long time. but he doesn't know how to tell nina, erm....this other girl without hurtin her feelinz >>
any advice for this guy?? <<;
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There's never really an easy way to tell a girl that you're leaving her for someone else..and it makes it even more difficult since he's known this other girl longer than the current g/f, so you cant use the 'i want to preserve our friendship' way out..hmm
I'm hoping, though, that he's not with the other girl yet? that he's not dating them both?
All i can suggest here is being honest..just tell her that your friendship with this other girl has progressed, and you've realised your true feelings for eachother. Tell her all the nice things about her, and how she'll have a lot of guys after her, but just that you feel you should really give a relationship with this close friend a chance, incase it's really meant to be. Hope this helps ^^
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hi DF dadragonz? how r u? ^_^ i'm toruko-jin-selim and i wonder if u can help me? ^^

i'm one of these boys who is very nice and i would treat a girl with respect and stuff and i don't cheat

but i have bad luck with girls, whenever i ask a girl out or try to get to know a girl, i just get rejected straight away -_- and they say i'm not thier type......:( i've been getting the same thing for years now, i think maybe i'm ugly.... -_-0 please help me, i need help with my love life..... :'(
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Hiya toruko ^^ hmm, im trying to paint myself a picture of your situation. I definately would not jump to the assumption that you're ugly. It may be that, because you show them such respect, they want to keep their friendship with you? or that they like guys wiht a slight bad-boy side? I suggest this as I know it's true about me ^^ I have these two guy friends, who i really love as friends, but because they're so respectful, they're great to go and talk to when i have problems etc, but I want to preserve that, which is why i want to keep them as friends ^^ ..that and the fact that i'm more attracted to someone who's a slight bad boy XD
There is one piece of advice that I will give you 'stya true to yourself. Never try to change just to please a girl, as it will never work out. Wait for a girl who likes you for you, and who wants this great respect and attention. You may wait a while, but it'll definately be worth it, rather than changing who you are just to make a girl like you..has this answered your question? Let me know if it hasn't ^^
 
Hello! -_- relationships ugh dont get me to start lol -_- im movin skools anyway so i wont see my gf anymore -_- but im not really emotional like that so it dont affect me much :P

Toruko-Jin-Selim No One is ugly except maybe Marilyn Manson but he makes it up wit his AWSOME MUSIC DUDES! lol anyway if girls dont want u its there loss its not how u look it be da inside dat counts.
 
I want to say sorry for earlyer. I should not have vented like that in a open thread. Next time i will pm. Sorry agian. v.v
 
Kris, dont let ur gf see that XD

EO, dont worry about it ^^ if venting helps, then feel free to vent ^^
 
<--- DF dadragonz may be the relationship guru but im the MESS-EVERYTHING-UP GURU! lol o and dont forget im ex-sex guru aswell lol

Lol she doesnt come on here and i kinda dumped her as i left skool today and im not into relationships if the girl doesnt liv near meh. Anyway get onto msn dadragonz!
 
wow..u sound like a..caring..boyfriend Kris...XD
cant come on msn -got work to do now ^^;

so, if anyone needs advice, or if you want to go into more detail about a question you've already asked, post it here, or PM me if it's private..and dont worry, i will not tell anyone -i respect confidentiality ^^
 
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Hiya toruko ^^ hmm, im trying to paint myself a picture of your situation. I definately would not jump to the assumption that you're ugly. It may be that, because you show them such respect, they want to keep their friendship with you? or that they like guys wiht a slight bad-boy side? I suggest this as I know it's true about me ^^ I have these two guy friends, who i really love as friends, but because they're so respectful, they're great to go and talk to when i have problems etc, but I want to preserve that, which is why i want to keep them as friends ^^ ..that and the fact that i'm more attracted to someone who's a slight bad boy XD
There is one piece of advice that I will give you 'stya true to yourself. Never try to change just to please a girl, as it will never work out. Wait for a girl who likes you for you, and who wants this great respect and attention. You may wait a while, but it'll definately be worth it, rather than changing who you are just to make a girl like you..has this answered your question? Let me know if it hasn't ^^
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hi again ^^ no i'm not one of these bad-boys, i don't act like that, i just act normal and myself.....i hate ppl who act like bad-boys or girls, i don't try to change myself to get to know a girl, i am myself, a nice kind, caring, understanding etc ^^, but i dunno......i just don't have much luck with girls......*sigh* i just dunno.... >_<0 DF dadragonz , i've added you onto msn, maybe we can chat on there ^^
 
LoL As i Said Before "Im not the emotion type lol" im More like If shes not there then theres nothing there between me and her so rly i dont like long distance relationships -_- And dadragonz i know u skive off work to come on here and then watch sailor moon all da time =P
 
actually kris, im working as in towards my masters degree i.e. i have 12 chapters and 2 assignments to do for next week

sure toruko ^^ i may be on msn later tonight
and it's great that ur not willing to change *hugs*
 
hehe ok u do ur degree or woteva it is *thinks dont let them think ur dumb!* lol anyway Toruko-Jin-Selim dont change it just makes ya unhappy and no one wants that u shouldnt change yourself for a girl unless the change is actually better for urself lol
 
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hehe ok u do ur degree or woteva it is *thinks dont let them think ur dumb!* lol anyway Toruko-Jin-Selim dont change it just makes ya unhappy and no one wants that u shouldnt change yourself for a girl unless the change is actually better for urself lol
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lol ^^ i don't need to change, the way i am at the momernt is great compared to changing ^^ any girl would have the desire to give me a chance.......but sadly, resently i never had a chance......more than 2 years ago i used to have a gf who is a pok? fan, but we lived too far away from each other(we did meet in person) and it did not work out........ :( so i was unhappy about that, but nevermind ^^
 
you'll find the right girl, toruko, im sure of it ;)
dont worry, you're still young ^^
 
Tell me this DF (and whats yer real name??)

Let's say you've known this girl for about, 6 years, and you've liked her all that time and you like her more and more each day you see her. Your really really good friends with her and you would much rather be friends with her than tell her you like her and her ignore you. Now one day you finally bring up every ounce of courage in your body to tell the girl you like her. She gives the typical "let's just be friends" response. YOu accept it, and leave it.

Then you keep seeing her regularly like normal, and she ignores you. The times where she would normally say hi and come to greet you are gone! You say hi to her, and she kind of winces and says "hi" in a demeaning way back. And not only that, but the other friends that you have begin to act the same way towards you because you told the girl you like her.

So the girl you've liked most of your life hates you because you told her you like her and now she's going out with one of your friends, she gets your friends to hate you as well, and you feel as if you can never socialize with them again...

How the h?ll do I deal with that?
 
My real name is Claire, Dakota ^^
What i think is going on with her is that she possibly is worried about giving you the wrong idea, so has actually backed off even more than normal. By backing off, she is showing you again that she wants you two to stay friends..crazy, yeah, but im afraid it's just what some people do -it may be that she doesn't feel comfortable around you at the moment, so talking to her, and helping her to understand that you respect her decision, and you don't want your friendship to be jeopardised should help the situation. I don't think she hates you, Dakota.
As far as your friends go..maybe it's because they don't really know what to say to you because of the situation? Maybe they feel a bit awkward, especially if you guys have some mutual friends.
That would be my view on what's going on, so I don't think that you should worry about it too greatly -i put the lack of contact down to awkwardness rather than hate ^^
Hope this helps, but if anything changes and you want to ask again, feel free ;)
 
There is this girl that annoys me. Need more help!!!
 
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