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    Need advice, give advice. This is what the thread is made for!

    So start giving and getting
     
    before i tell..... i want to say that this this is such a useless thread. i mean some people give bad advice for certain things. so im not gonna tell you. cause i can go and get advice from a book! or a computer! or my mom, teacher, and ur saying that we have to get advice here????!!!!WOW
     
    okay for one this is jsut for fun. If there is people like you who dont need advice do nt spam.
     
    tsk, tsk, no spam people please. okay my dad wants to meet my boyfriend, but i know my dad wouldn't like how my BF acts. i really like him and i think either way i may have to dump him. Any way to get my dad to chill out?
     
    Well. Either tell your boyfriend to act diffrent whilst meeting your dad. Or tell your dad that he is your boyfriend and your life and get grounded. Either way it may work. Good luck.
     
    Quite a predicament ya got there. I think the only thing at this point is to make your bf be, by your dad's standings, "acceptable". Don't resort to the last plan yet before you try anything else. If your bf thinks he is unable to make himself "acceptable", then all you have can do is see how things turn out. I don't question you when you say your dad won't like the way he acts(cause i don't know any of them), but i've had past experiences when i've thought that but was wrong. Other things you could do is to show your dad that he's got other things that make up for the way he acts, or try to catch your dad when he's having a good day. I'll post more if i think of more. Hope i helped some.

    before i tell..... i want to say that this this is such a useless thread. i mean some people give bad advice for certain things. so im not gonna tell you. cause i can go and get advice from a book! or a computer! or my mom, teacher, and ur saying that we have to get advice here????!!!!WOW
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    Ah and powerofpikachu, A) no one said you HAD TO get advice from here B) as i just said above, you can't prejudge(in general) and say that people's advice is crap, and C) how do you know the internet or teachers or other people will give you good advice? All advice comes from some person, it may help some, but not help others. So thus D) TRY!!
     
    ya that meeting never happened as um... -sighs- another problem. i don't think i like my BF as much. I mean one moment i'm in love with him the next i dont feel any emotion toward him at all. i don't get it? I mean he's a sweet guy that has only eyes for me but... Well lately i've been well... sex talking with radom guys online... could that be part of it?
     
    ha ha a very good possiblity of it! Be careful talking like that though.
     
    punkhobbitqueen said:
    ya that meeting never happened as um... -sighs- another problem. i don't think i like my BF as much. I mean one moment i'm in love with him the next i dont feel any emotion toward him at all. i don't get it? I mean he's a sweet guy that has only eyes for me but... Well lately i've been well... sex talking with radom guys online... could that be part of it?
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    Oh dear.. If you really love him, you will feel emotion for him for most of the time. Even if it doesn't feel that way, what what happens when you talk to him or hear his name.. If something sparks inside of you, then you might be falling in love with him.. It takes a very long time to completely accept a person and their faults, and still be able to love them. If he's a sweet guy that only has eyes for you, then he truly cares about you, so don't abuse a guy like that! Because there aren't many.. And please stop having sex talks with random people online, it isn't safe or sane, and you may be hurting your bf by it. Yes, it's only only. But he's being faithful to you, doesn't he deserve the same treatment?
     
    Haha, yeah...this getting closed. Something more important than what we all think about our problems and our life is, of course, a stranger's opinion.

    This aint allowed dude, sorry.
     
    Hey you are not a mod you cant say this is getting closed!
     
    Squirrel said:
    Hey you are not a mod you cant say this is getting closed!
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    Ouch...that hurt...

    No I'm not a mod, but I still know the rules. And when a rule-knowing mods comes and sees this...it ---should--- get closed.
     
    Dakota, we've had heaps of advice threads that weren't closed o_o And Squirrel, he's perfectly entitled to point out if something breaches the rules - however, in this case, he was mistaken.
     
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    Oh dear.. If you really love him, you will feel emotion for him for most of the time. Even if it doesn't feel that way, what what happens when you talk to him or hear his name.. If something sparks inside of you, then you might be falling in love with him.. It takes a very long time to completely accept a person and their faults, and still be able to love them. If he's a sweet guy that only has eyes for you, then he truly cares about you, so don't abuse a guy like that! Because there aren't many.. And please stop having sex talks with random people online, it isn't safe or sane, and you may be hurting your bf by it. Yes, it's only only. But he's being faithful to you, doesn't he deserve the same treatment?
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    yeah i guess your right, but i've been doing it for so long its a second nature to me. ... should i tell him so he could help me stop or would that jusy hurt him?
     
    Doing it for so long? You're only 14, isn't that just a little but young for you to be even worrying about that sort of thing? Besides...you can't trust everyone you meet on the internet ;) Guy who tells you hes 14, 15, looking for a good time? He's really 45, living in his parrents basement, getting his kicks talking dirty to little kids. It's just something you need to look out for, those kind of weirdos are out there, so you know..

    And when you say you love your boyfriend..now, I'm under the impression you havn't fully understood the emotion known as love. See, seeing that you are 14, that wouldn't be an issue if you hadn't shown your immaturity by admitting you have "sex talks". I don't want to sound mean by any means but really, if you do that kind of thing and its "second nature" to you, you obviously havn't reached the maturity level to fully grasp how deep and pure of an emotion love truly is, especially if you do these little conversations with "random guys". If you can't even have a sense of commitment to the one real thing in your romantic life, how can you possibly say you love him? Just something for your perusal...love isn't a word I generaly like to throw around, so I'm very picky when I see people 'misuse' it..
     
    *sigh*

    Alot of things have been going on that has to do with my religion that has people treating me like crap.... I dont get what I am saposta do!, I joined this religion called wicca cause it has no bad things in it and everybody is really nice and give people even of bad sides a chance to realy shine and actualy teaches people things, while at the same time cause of past problems the church has had with are tribes I'm thought of as a devil worshiper, We worchip all Arch angels and god and the lady nature, that dosint meen just cause lusifer is a Arch angel we shouldint be alowed to be accepted by the people of the world T_T.... Not many who are wiccan can feel open about themselves at my age cause they fear what is to come but I feel that is utter nonsense =D I'm PROUD to be a true native of this religion and I feel there isint a thing to be worried about o_o people think I'm of the devil but if I am why have I worked so hard in my daily life to make the WHOLE world happy???

    i know I cant make everybody happy but I didint get a long friend list, loyalty, and dependence on this forum by being a devil worshiper ;.;, I shouldint be treated badly just cause the season of spirits (winter) is coming and I'm proud to join this forum in my festivities! Just cause I do so though I'm killed even for posting thing about my religion ... I even host a site with Kasuro(paul) and laitly it seems he's been ignoring me or something so we cant even talk about the forum. this seems to have only come about the exact day after I mensioned I'm a Alchemist in training, I reach out to people and when I finaly feel safe to tell them what I am and what I'm about and why I am the way I am o_o I get a kick in the ass and a plate of bitter hatered with a side of "Get away from me"?

    You guys know me and for some reason each time I even start acting comfertable and being proud of myself, I'm slamed to the ground... Does anybody have any advice on what you could do in this kind of situation, cause I'm about to blow the whole friends list I have just cause a little over half of them are christians!!!

    I'm sorry for coming here telling my problem as I have... But every where I go I'm treated like **** and I do everything in my power not to deserve such treatment..... I even give you guys never ending forgivness, Free stuff, a friend to play with, a shoulder to cry on and all sorts of stuff... But when I need a shoulder to cry on like I do now, and I need someone to tell me " it's okay your a great person" All I get is a bottle of air and dry emotions .....*sniff* I'm going to go for the next week soon, just cause my resent activity has to do with something called the winter soulstis and no one understands it if I start posting about it... Sorry if it bothers anyone, but I'm ganna be here for three more days and thats that untill the festivities are over with... I feel horible for leaveing like this but what other choice am I given but to stay and be attacked?

    If you have advice on my situation.. I would love to hear it...
     
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    It's okay...

    Calm down now...

    I also had the same treatment as you, being abused and all. But not because of religion, but because they fear something from me that once I uncover it, they'd be covered in shame.

    But then, even though you're not a Christian. I'll share you something as a Christian-Catholic:

    "Blessed are you those who weep, you shall be comforted."
    -Bk. of St. Matthew 5:4

    I hope this helps, somehow you'll get the feeling in times you're being persecuted, our Lord Jesus will assist you whoever or whatever kind of person you are. For once believe in Him, let's see how will you go in the end. Also try praying to Him, like people say "no harm in trying".

    I hope I did not offend you about this.
     
    Oh wow...this was a few days shy of breaking the 30 day revival rule...

    hangad bukaspalad said:
    Christian-Catholic
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    Huh? I don't get it...

    it's like saying your a Jewish Nazi
     
    Freenaturearts said:
    Alot of things have been going on that has to do with my religion that has people treating me like crap.... I dont get what I am saposta do!, I joined this religion called wicca cause it has no bad things in it and everybody is really nice and give people even of bad sides a chance to realy shine and actualy teaches people things, while at the same time cause of past problems the church has had with are tribes I'm thought of as a devil worshiper, We worchip all Arch angels and god and the lady nature, that dosint meen just cause lusifer is a Arch angel we shouldint be alowed to be accepted by the people of the world T_T.... Not many who are wiccan can feel open about themselves at my age cause they fear what is to come but I feel that is utter nonsense =D I'm PROUD to be a true native of this religion and I feel there isint a thing to be worried about o_o people think I'm of the devil but if I am why have I worked so hard in my daily life to make the WHOLE world happy???

    i know I cant make everybody happy but I didint get a long friend list, loyalty, and dependence on this forum by being a devil worshiper ;.;, I shouldint be treated badly just cause the season of spirits (winter) is coming and I'm proud to join this forum in my festivities! Just cause I do so though I'm killed even for posting thing about my religion ... I even host a site with Kasuro(paul) and laitly it seems he's been ignoring me or something so we cant even talk about the forum. this seems to have only come about the exact day after I mensioned I'm a Alchemist in training, I reach out to people and when I finaly feel safe to tell them what I am and what I'm about and why I am the way I am o_o I get a kick in the ass and a plate of bitter hatered with a side of "Get away from me"?

    You guys know me and for some reason each time I even start acting comfertable and being proud of myself, I'm slamed to the ground... Does anybody have any advice on what you could do in this kind of situation, cause I'm about to blow the whole friends list I have just cause a little over half of them are christians!!!

    I'm sorry for coming here telling my problem as I have... But every where I go I'm treated like **** and I do everything in my power not to deserve such treatment..... I even give you guys never ending forgivness, Free stuff, a friend to play with, a shoulder to cry on and all sorts of stuff... But when I need a shoulder to cry on like I do now, and I need someone to tell me " it's okay your a great person" All I get is a bottle of air and dry emotions .....*sniff* I'm going to go for the next week soon, just cause my resent activity has to do with something called the winter soulstis and no one understands it if I start posting about it... Sorry if it bothers anyone, but I'm ganna be here for three more days and thats that untill the festivities are over with... I feel horible for leaveing like this but what other choice am I given but to stay and be attacked?
    If you have advice on my situation.. I would love to hear it...
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    Well some people can be stupid. I know a couple of Wiccin people who are my friends and i don't care. There are still a lot of narrow minded people these days and you just have to ignore them. There are people who will accept you no matter what and if they are bashing you because of your religion, dump them or just ignore them. One of these days we will have a world when everyone accepts everyone else no matter what.
     
    This is like, the third religious thread I see on PC today. O_o

    I joined this religion called wicca cause it has no bad things in it and everybody is really nice and give people even of bad sides a chance to realy shine and actualy teaches people things
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    You joined a religion because it taught nice things and treats everyone fairly? So when someone asks you why you believe what you do, you're gonna say "Because it's a nice religion!" If I made a religion called "Happytime" and gave everyone cookies, would you join it?? You seriously think happiness is the meaning of life??

    Wow...I just, have no respect for you anymore.
     
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