The Post Your Problems Thread

[Guillermo]

Okay, seriously.
You don't always try everything and learn from it.
Your parents and ect. also tell you the other amount of things you should advoid.
It's called RASING YOUR KID.


EXAMPLE:

Dr. Er...whatever-son tells Mr. and Mrs. Sample that thier boy is lactose intolerant.
Does that mean the boy should drink a gallon on milk and have an insane allergic reaction?
Or should he have been told that YOU CAN POSSIBLY DIE FROM DRINKING WAY TOO MUCH MILK.

Playing in the dirt helps immunties, because of all the germs and such that's in it.
Nothing to do with "advoiding stuff".

What you're saying, is that people will tell you not to sleep with "Sluprohooks" (Look above posts if you don't know what this means), or you'll possibly catch a STD.
But to really learn, as you say, they have to sleep with a sluprohook and catch whatever diesease she had.

People also have COMMON SENCE.
I suggest they start using it.

First off, for someone that talks about common 'sence', you sure are making yourself look idiotic. It would take common sense to realise that people raise their kids differently, and sure, you don't always learn things by doing something, but most of the time you do. You won't know if you have a fear of heights until you actually climb up to the top of a tall building. You won't know if you're allergic to something unless you get a reaction. There's millions of things out there that need to be tested in order to be proven, Tacharine.

So please, before you make yourself look even more idiotic, try using some of your common 'sence'.

 

[Weatherman Kiyoshi]

for someone who talks big, you sure don't know how to spell 'sense','disease', 'avoiding' and a whole lot more. Also people have different ways of raising their kids, not everyone will follow your silly way

For someone so hooked on spelling, you sure know how to capitalize the beginning of your sentences, as well as putting a period at end of a sentence. Just because I don't ABC Check everything I write, doesn't make my point any less valid.
Obsessing over spelling makes your points even more weak because you have to point out all the flaws about how people type something.

Okay, okay, you got me there.
Parents have different ways of raising thier kids.
*Shrugs*
I guess completely ignoring your child and not prepare them for life is a great way to raise your kid!
Lets not go with my silly way.

First off, for someone that talks about common 'sence', you sure are making yourself look idiotic. It would take common sense to realise that people raise their kids differently, and sure, you don't always learn things by doing something, but most of the time you do. You won't know if you have a fear of heights until you actually climb up to the top of a tall building. You won't know if you're allergic to something unless you get a reaction. There's millions of things out there that need to be tested in order to be proven, Tacharine.

So please, before you make yourself look even more idiotic, try using some of your common 'sence'.

I have to agree with you,
Human beings are the product of their genes, and their experiences.
(For instance, if they ever could clone a baby to exactly have the same personality quirks, etc. basically make two of the same person mentally and physically, One could be raised up to have Christian beliefs, one as Jewish.)

And, I don't remember saying that you don't learn from your experiences.
As I remember, I said:
"You don't always try everything and learn from it."

Key word in that sentence should be pretty obvious.
You don't:
Get told "BE CAREFUL WITH THAT SAW! YOU COULD CHOP YOUR ARM OFF!" and ignore the statement completely and saw your arm off and say "I SHOULD BE CAREFUL WITH A SAW! IT COULD CHOP MY ARM OFF!"

I'm not saying that you should listen to something such as:
"THE SKY IS PURPLE! THAT'S THE COLOR OF PURPLE, NOT BLUE!"

Because it's totally up to you to research the subject instead of growing up and thinking the color blue is called purple.

And by research, I don't mean "SAW YOUR ARM OFF, BILLY! IT'S FOR RESEARCH!"

Well, everyone has their own common 'sence' anyway,
and be able to except good advice from others.

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Before anyone gets infracted for flame wars, I suggest we stop.

 

[Richard Wagner]

My problems are.......

Well, I'm sure if I looked at them the right way, they wouldn't appear to be problems at all.

 

[Mitchman]

Actually everything is learnt from an experience. You learn things from mowing the lawn or shovelling the driveway and all. Experiences are what makes humans and people more alive and well developed for better or for worse. Anyway besides your little debate i have a problem of sorts. So then a couple of pages back i posted how crazy i was for this girl. Well i decided to start smiling at her and all but she didnt say anything like hi or such. I want to be subtle and all cause well she is a girl who would make the first move and then you see how things go from there. So i said screw it let me forget her. Now then how does this be a problem? God hates me. I ask him for a miracle for her to pop up in front of me one day randomly just so i can be able to tell her how sorry i was for saying something and how i cant stand knowing that i said such things and all that and he did give me that miracle but yesterday when i even forgot how her voice sounded after so many months. Now i am thinking of doing something but i need opinions. The way she was acting all jittery in front of my parents like how i was when i saw her made me think:
although she is with someone i doubt its going to last long cause of some certain conditions about him. I am thinking the next time i see her in the local deli(we go to the same deli for cripes sake and i dont say hi!) i do say hi. And see if she will say hi back or no. So should i? I say i should just so i can see if she wants to at least become friends.

 

[BHwolfgang]

I think you solved your own problem, Mitch.

 

[Mitchman]

I did? So all i have to do is just keep on saying hi to her until she say hi back one day and things could go good from there?

 

[Superjub]

Well, I'm kinda attracted to this girl but, well, she has all these...'male friends.' (Although most of them fancy her friends OR already have a girlfriend.)
Anyway, I have this other 'friend' who asks her for hugs just so he can annoy me, but when I ask for hugs, is it because I'm jealous?
Meh, I am really attracted to this girl but I am not sure if she feels the same. She knows (well, everyone in my school knows...XD) that I fancy her, but she hasn't said anything to me about the subject...

I just wonder if I'm being too possesive, asking her for hugs just because her friends (and some of my friends) ask her for hugs just to irritate me. I mean, one of my friends said I am acting childish, asking her for hugs just because her friends do it to irritate me, but I think its just because I'm jealous. I mean, she actually gives me hugs (I have to ask but...:\) but is it out of pity? :( Also, when I'm alone with her, I get so shy and timid.

 

[devilicious]

@Mitchan Is;
That's definitely an acceptable way to get things going. Of course, not just saying 'hi', but following with a 'how are you?' or 'what's up?' to sparkle up a conversation could be nice.

 

[Mitchman]

Superfairy your talking to me right? Also damn espeon right fine problem your in. Now i dont exactly dont know that much but i got a lot of advice from my friends and learnt some stuff. If she knows that you like her and ask for hugs from her hmm i wouldnt continue with it. It seems like she does cause of pity but then again does she do it like straight away in a snap and with excitement? Cause that could mean she likes you. But yeah i am shy and timid but slowly i am gaining a courage to talk to that girl i mentioned. Drag your friend to the side and have a nice sweet talk with her. Dont be too mean and angry sounding just talk to her and ask if she like you and if she doesnt well tell her i undestand and you hope that you guys can be friends. Cuase sometimes its better that way.

BTW for a guy who just asked a girl out that finally said yes(she is like the 10th girl i ask that actually accepted) and went through all this hell i am surprised that i didnt do all this earlier and i didnt ask her out earlier when she was sending me all those hints. If you excuse me im off to find a bat and some wooden fences.

 

[Superjub]

One time I did just walk over to her when we split up and she just gave me a hug without me even asking so...:)

I might just try and rack up the courage to actually get into a conversation with her...hopefully. :(

 

[BHwolfgang]

I did? So all i have to do is just keep on saying hi to her until she say hi back one day and things could go good from there?

Yes, but that's just the beginning. You can't just say hi to her all the time to expect to open up to you. Sayin' hi to her all the time and walk off would probably creep her out.
How about try to start a conversation after that? Or, maybe just asked her how her day was? You need to get to know her more before you two can become friends. ^^

 

[Superjub]

I'll try and help :D

How about asking her if she has any hobbies? Or maybe meet up on a weekend or something? If you go to the same school, try and discuss a subject or something? Also, a compliment can come in handy to. ;)

 

[Mitchman]

I know her name i know her parents even. But none of ours know nothing. Oh and we go to it in the morning before school so i would just say hi to her see if she says hi bakc and start a conversation in front of her friend. Hopefully tomorrow i time myself right for it to happen.
@espeon:
Oh so wait you guys stopped being friends cause of an arguement and when you and her became friends again she came up to you and hugged you wanting to be friends again? Sounds like she wants to be a bit more then friends so find that courage and talk to her. Hopefully im right and i read her well enough from what you said.
Edit: Okay okay yeah ill say all that but first i have to tell her how sorry i am for telling her to stop playing me to stop playing her 5 year old games and to find some other idiot to play and that i cant sleep at night cause i am going crazy for saying that and being mean. No seriously i actually started drinking more coffee then usual cause i cant sleep at night.

 

[Syrex]

Daddy to be :(

I totally messed up big time... I am with my current girlfriend for 11 months now.

This is my current:

I'm pretty much going to leave her because
1) She doesn't deserve to be cheated on like I did to her.
2) I have a kid on the way =/

Now, this is the girl I knocked up named Nicollette.

This is my ex girlfriend.

Sadly, One night I was trashed at a party and she came. She was totally sober and conned me into having sex with her. No condom + I guess I jizzed in her.

I feel so... depressed that I was able to go through with this =/

It's going to be hard to leave Brooke.

:'(

 

[True Reign]

That sucks.

Do you know for sure that your going to become a father?

 

[Mitchman]

As your girlfriend she should have helped you home and all but hey i guess you will be a good dad i think. I hope. But yeah congratulations although booze was at its fiendish work again.

 

[Syrex]

Yes =/

She did the preg. test and it was a big old pink plus staring at me.
She claims I am the only one she slept with.
I'm still getting a parternity test done.

 

[Mitchman]

Well good luck if you guys get through this and i hope education isnt effected.

 

[Syrex]

I am a senior in high school so I should be graduated before she gives birth.

I'm going to find a way to go to college. :]

 

[luke]

This thread belongs in the Post Your Problems thread.

*merges*