Spearow
mr. nobody
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- Seen May 30, 2011
Fear for your children's safety, I'd say. What is comparable to the helplessness a parent feels in the face of the large, threatening world their child must necessarily face on their own? There are always times when your child must be out of your reach - if only for brief seconds when they wander to close to the edge or run just around the corner, to watching them go to school where they could conceivably meet not-nice kids and not-nice adults without you being there to protect them, to letting them fend for themselves for the first time when they reach adulthood.
Extending from that, it is of course a hugely difficult thing to see your child hurt, physically or emotionally, or just generally in pain - again, another place where you sometimes cannot reach them and find yourself frustratingly powerless.
I think the biggest risk in raising a child, as it is in giving your unconditional love to anything, is the possibility of ultimately losing them. You know it's always lurking in the back of any parent's mind.
Extending from that, it is of course a hugely difficult thing to see your child hurt, physically or emotionally, or just generally in pain - again, another place where you sometimes cannot reach them and find yourself frustratingly powerless.
I think the biggest risk in raising a child, as it is in giving your unconditional love to anything, is the possibility of ultimately losing them. You know it's always lurking in the back of any parent's mind.