Which one..?

Jedi_Amara said:
Eeeep... what an interesting question. If I was loved but didn't love, I'd forever feel guilty because I couldn't return the love... but if I was in love with someone and didn't get anything back from them (IT HAPPENS TOO OFTEN ;_; CRUSHES SUCK) I'd start feeling depressed and stuff...

... realistically? I'd get out of that relationship as soon as possible.

You have a good point there. I wouldn't know what to do.

JA said:
(IT HAPPENS TOO OFTEN ;_; CRUSHES SUCK)
I know what you mean. ;__;
 
My option is to be loved by not love. Why? Cos nobody likes me and if someone actually did like me it would mean a lot to me. You won't believe how many girls I've had a crush on (and today I wasn't working to my full potential at school today, just because the girl I have a crush on was sitting RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME).
 
Hmm...such a difficult, thoughtful question. I guess I would choose 'to love and yet be unloved'. That way, I would have to take the blow rather than someone else. I consider myself a sensitive person, and other people agree. I would be very sad if someone loved me and I could not return the same kind of love for them, and I don't think I could take the guilt over that.
 
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You don't need love to have a relationship. Some people just do it to become popular or for money. Believe or not people are that cold.
 
I wouldn't go with both. I want the girl to like me too.

but I pick to love and be unlove. It seems moraly correct, to give and not get.
 
To love, yet be unloved would be like stalking, wouldn't it? I'd choose to unlove, yet be loved. Who knows? The reason you don't love them could be because something bad has just happened in your life, and you aren't thinking straight.
 
ok

I would rather be unloved because I just feel like it
 
Love and unloved, because to cold-heartedly turn away from a person who sincerly loves you is just .. wrong.

It hurts the other person.
 
This happens all the time in real life but I honestly don't know which one I would rather choose.

I think that I would like to love and be unloved, I guess it sucks for you but I wouldn't want some one who doesn't love me anyway......wait, that contradicts what I just said........dang......this is a good question. I'll take either one I guess, they're both unappealing.
 
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