Joshawott
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It takes maturity, not age.
Couldn't have said it better myself.
It takes maturity, not age.
Going on the sex front, anyone younger than 16 having intercourse is a horrible thought.
Don't know about you, but the idea of anyone under 16 being pregnant is a shocking sight. And there is always a risk of it, no matter what precautions they take.
What if your son or daughter was having sex before they were 16 and they come home saying they are pregnant or going to be a father. Don't know about you, but I would go mental.
The thing is, that sort of scenario has been happening since the beginning of the human race. One doesn't have to look far into the past to see that marriages between grown men to women as young as 13, 14, or 15 was common place. So, for me, it's not in the least bit shocking to see someone that young being pregnant. Certainly the last thing anyone would need is me judging them for being pregnant. If anything, I'd be supportive.
Well, in that scenario, I'd be a hypocrite as I was sexually active at the age of 12. As for my son or daughter coming to me about pregnancy, since my boyfriend still hasn't gotten me pregnant, and since there's a 0% change of me getting a woman pregnant, I don't think I have to worry about any child coming to me saying they're pregnant or going to be a father.
What if your son or daughter was having sex before they were 16 and they come home saying they are pregnant or going to be a father. Don't know about you, but I would go mental.
I think that most gay, or straight, 12 year old's would overlook the possibility of contracting an STD (especial with the lack of gay sexual education), and therefore not take into account the methods of which to protect themselves. I also think that since the possibility of conceiving children for same sex partners is 0 %, there is a false sense of protection that encompasses the gay community, and therefore protection is sometime overlooked by a good chunk of homosexual people, let alone the naive and less informed preteens.
In my own subjective opinion, I don't think that it is the best decision for a 12 year old to have sex. It's hard to set an age limit, but I would say that I would prefer, if one day I have kids, that they wait until they are AT LEAST 16 , in a committed relationship, and have both had their assortment of STD tests. I would also advise them to not hookup or have random sexual encounters regularly, but it's just my own old-fashioned suggestion. The whole point is, if kids are going to be engaged in sexual activity, it is probably best that parent are somewhat involved and open with their kids about the matter, rather than sweep it under the rug because it is uncomfortable to talk about. Also, kids will make mistakes, sometimes if we loosen the reigns a bit, a let them figure out somethings for themselves, it might benefit them more than being overtly strict.
I agree. I know people in their early teens capable of sustaining a healthy relationship, and I know a huge number of people in their 50's who still aren't ready for a relationship.I say whenever a kid wants a relationship is whenever he/she should have one. Their maturity level might not be appropriate for a relationship, but that's something they will learn for themselves. It's not our place to tell them they can't because they're too young.
In any case, moving this over to Other Chat because it is, to put it into scientific terms, "discussiony" XD
Er, that doesn't make sense!2) They are no younger than half of your age plus seven years