In the middle ages, Christianity went through a phase where they forgot some of the teachings of the bible...today we are actually very tolerant, and I, for one, regret the crusades and conquests and stake-burnings. The masses were uninformed on the truths of their own religion, and began to make up things. We are reformed now and regret any violence that our ancestors carried out. They had forgotten that the way to minister is through kindness, not violence. But that was then, this is now, and we're different. Some people still act like we're ignorant conquistadors still, though, which enrages me.
Might I add that not believing in some scientific theories does not make us bad. It is simply a choice of beliefs all people must make. I, personally, believe in adaptive evolution (changes within a single species to make it adapt to an environment), but not macroevolution...science and religion go very well together.
And about the "duty to see the movie" issue, I doubt people feel a duty to see it, but are strongly compelled. Your friend was very excited and desired to see the movie, and if she actually felt it was her duty then there's nothing wrong with that. This movie can only help peoples' lives, eh? And the R-rating doesn't make it bad. They couldn't make Jesus's suffering realistic and not get an R-rating, and people who have seen it know that the suffering was meant to touch, not disgust, people. They did what they had to.
I don't think you sound offensive at all, and have stated your opinion quite civilly, like most other people in this topic, and I'm glad it's stayed civil this long. Thanks for your input!
~Chairman Kaga