That's one of the reasons why I and my siblings quit in the first place. We didn't want it to get too addicting. And it's not just addiction. It's the fact that you have to dedicate so much time to events (especially in a guild), such as raids. We just felt it wasn't worth it.
Wish I could play with you, but I'm not willing to pay a monthly bill for a game (and I don't think we have our old account anymore).
Plus, by now, it's gotten a little outdated, at least in terms of graphic quality.