You'd be suprised at how much I've been investigating what was happening, though. You see, right before Spey was removed from that forum that he used to have in his signature, I registered there to see the poll. Despite the fact that I wasn't there to really know what he did, some of the things both you and him said were really rude and disrespectful to one another. That's the main reason why I believe the two of you are in such a brawl. But I would really advise you to just stop communicating with and about him for the time being. Then, when everything's settled, you can talk to him if you feel the need to without worrying about anything that's happened in the past few weeks.
If you'd like, I'll delete your whole conversation. The reason why I'm saying this is becasue apparently he respects me as a moderator and if he sees that I delete the visitor messages between the two of you instead of you deleting them, maybe he'll see that he's just over reacting, despite having an illness.