Ah, I see. Yeah, usually, I'm not too good at it either; whenever I get my hands on money, one way or another, I always find a way to spend it all.
May he rest in peace. =( Things like this could happen at any time, so if aren't prepared, they could indeed shock us. Yep, I could definitely understand. Hopefully, they won't be taking it negatively if you ask them after a week or two?