Well, that's sorta interesting. Your secretive nature led me to believe that it was something more. Like, some guy had a hold of your woman, and you had to go in all Kung Fu Panda style and ruffle a few feathers, but the strain it left you meant you were unable to talk about it for weeks, and you kept it bottled up deep inside of you until finally, finally you were able to talk about it on a Pokemon forum, where no one can judge you.
But your story's kinda cool, I guess...