Well, think about it this way. Humans are free willed, and there is nothing stopping you right now from picking up a knife and murdering the entire family next door.
That's not something God wanted you to do, that's just you being bloody freaking insane.
The reason that that happened was because you were a murderer. Not God. Humans have free will, everything you do is you own personal choice that God cannot make you choose a certain path.
Sometime we're put in situations because of other people too, not God. Like if we're kidnapped. That was the doing of the person.
Basically point in saying before I completely screw up my wording, "God doesn't make the world the world the way it is.... we do." God just influences to try and make it better, but there's only so much you can do if you can't directly affect someone's willpower or choices.
For me personally, there is just too much evidence of plain out oddities that are truly the work of something, to put it simply, magical.
Like the fact my Dad's still alive. From all the accidents he's been in, he should be a handicapped man with brain damage and a couple of fingers missing, if not dead. And I don't say that lightly. He should've been dead by now. But somehow, he's still kicking around to be able to raise me, be their for my older adult siblings, and be their for his wife and still have all of his limbs attached and the ability to walk.
The things I listed in my above post go here, too.
And just little things that happen from time to time.
Everything just seems to go perfectly. And that goes for the extensive flaws in my life, too.
But, everyone is entitled to their own opinion. And hey, if there does end up being an afterlife, better for all, eh?
Not that I don't think God doesn't totally understand people not believing in him. I bet he would be pretty skeptical of himself too if he wasn't.... you know, God himself.