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Question: Why am I being Ignored?

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    I've noticed over the last few weeks that whenever I try to participate in a giveaway, I am consistently and BLATANTLY ignored, for seemingly NO reason.

    I'm not blacklisted on the giveaways, I'm not rude to anyone, I'm always very polite in my posts.

    I don't understand why I am being ignored.

    Can someone please tell me why I'm being treated like this? I find this behavior very unfair.

    I haven't done anything wrong.
     
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  • I can understand how you feel, someone who feels like they are cast out in society and feels overshadowed by everything. You haven't done anything wrong, and no-one hates you, it's just that sometimes you may not be noticed right away.

    It's just something you have to deal with. PC is a big forum and that means some people get overshadowed more than others, but it's just something natural and you have to deal with it.
     

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    I don't see anything particularly wrong in your posts per se (but I can't see everything so maybe there is?). But is it possible you did something that didn't adhere to the rules that were set out in those giveaways? Maybe it's a string of coincidences that led to your posts being missed? I don't want to assume they're just straight up ignoring you for no reason at all.

    At the end of the day the only people who can give you a clear answer would be the posters in question. I wish I could help answer that, but I also encourage you to learn about the other side as well before assuming you're being treated unfairly.

    I hope this makes sense and isn't terrible advice ;.;
     
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    I don't see anything particularly wrong in your posts per se (but I can't see everything so maybe there is?). But is it possible you did something that didn't adhere to the rules that were set out in those giveaways? Maybe it's a string of coincidences that led to your posts being missed? I don't want to assume they're just straight up ignoring you for no reason at all.

    At the end of the day the only people who can give you a clear answer would be the posters in question. I wish I could help answer that, but I also encourage you to learn about the other side as well before assuming you're being treated unfairly.

    I hope this makes sense and isn't terrible advice ;.;


    I can understand how you feel, someone who feels like they are cast out in society and feels overshadowed by everything. You haven't done anything wrong, and no-one hates you, it's just that sometimes you may not be noticed right away.

    It's just something you have to deal with. PC is a big forum and that means some people get overshadowed more than others, but it's just something natural and you have to deal with it.

    I've sent a pm to one of the giveawayers before, asking if they missed me or why I wasn't be responded to, and received no answer back....

    that's a pretty good sign it's not a coincidence.

    I don't know what I've done or said, but apparently, I'm just not worth acknowledging anymore...
     
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    I'm not sure who you PMed (please don't say, personal issues aren't for public forums), but I know one giveaway specifically mentioned not to message them about it or you'd be ignored. Is it possible that the poster took your PM as asking for a Pokemon? Regardless, you still don't know the reason for them not responding so you shouldn't jump to conclusions.

    And don't say that, keep your head up. Don't let a few giveaways stop you from trading and interacting with people here on PC. Things can happen (especially on big forums like this as Hikamaru said) but don't take it as a sweeping statement that applies to everything.

    Do your best to keep a positive outlook :)
     
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    Hi! This was brought to my attention; I know the reason and I'll PM you.
     

    jombii

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  • come to ug no one will ignore you. they will backstab you and kill you but they will not ignore you :)

    On the topic, just keep your head up. Don't worry. As said, PC is a very large forum and it's very hard to have a very good presence here.
     
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