I personally would rather not have my child die by it being sucked out, burned, or whatever abortion method is used. If I'm going to have a child that is not going to make it, I would rather not have him or her die like that. It's unfair to my child. I would rather hold my baby at least once before he or she dies, so that they know how loved they were and always will be. And by the way, my fetus = my baby, my child. Fetus is scientific. Science isn't in me. It's a baby.
I'm not saying this woman didn't love her baby, but this is just my two cents, and what I would personally choose to do. It's a more difficult route to actually choose to give birth to a child that has no chance of surviving and letting it die in your arms yes, but either aborting it or the former, it's still hard. You're never going to forget it, no matter what you choose.