It's not just about having "the right parts". He'll always have the Y chromosome in every single cell of his, so he will always be a boy. This is the biological reality of it. Besides, any changes to his physical appearance will always be fake.
It actually seems like the mother wanted him in there more. I wouldn't be surprised if the mother is pushing some of this on him.
Are they actually a girl? No, then they are pretending. You all think though that as long he believes, then that makes them a girl (as demonstrated in the latter part of your post). There is no contradiction at all, because what I say is merely pretending, you say is believing. If I pretend/believe I am a girl, then according to you lot, I am.
And that doesn't seem absolutely ridiculous to you?
She opposes where the money from the sales of cookies will be spent, as do many others, judging by the article. Nice use of emotional language though dear.
I could go through a psychological and mental type of change towards the path of becoming a transpeciest chicken, so it isn't unrelated. It's the same thing: a person pretending to be something they're not. It's still the same thing even if they've convinced themselves and everyone else around them that it's reality.