I believe that the Haine Togu started this thread on Serebii too, under the guise Imari, correct?
Anyways, I feel for everyone with losses, I understand. But Nanako, you're the shallowest person I've ever been unfortunate enough to meet. Although, here's my losses.
My dog, my cat, and my birds died years ago. My cousin died 2 days before my birthday two years ago. He was in a car accident on his way to the airport to come see us. It was also his [and my] friend's birthday. My grandfather died 4 days before my birthday, but I can't remember what year, due to a heart attack. My Uncle Frederik died last year. There's a lot of death, and most of it around my birthday. It's why I hate my birthday. No one is happy. Last year, my friend Jessica died. Her Aunt's boyfriend posed as a guy on the internet, got in her nice books, and asked her to come round. He then chloroformed her, drugged her, raped her repeatedly, and then smashed her head in with a hammer. He put her in his closet for about a week, and then cops found her body. And just recently my recently born nephew died. RIP Connor Alexander Michalski.