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I gotta problem

Solo_tremaine

Sephiroth's gratest fan
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    Here my problem. I just ogt a BF, and he wants me to drop out of highschool when he graduates this year. Should I do that? I love him and I don't know what to do. What should I do? Also, should i Mention that he's 18 years old.
     
    No offense, but that is stupid! I would not drop out if I were you. You need an education, that is what is most important. If you don't drop out I'm sure your b/f will still love you. But if you honestly don't want to drop out then don't.
     
    I say school comes first. I know, I sound like a parent. But if he cares about you very much, he would wait for you to graduate. It's your choice though. It's best to stay.
     
    *smiles* here is my area of expertise... *walks over to Solo_tremaine* I only hve one question, Do you love him enough to sacrifice the rest of your life?I really don't think you want everyone else to hear what else I have to say about this.. if you pm me your MSN adress I'll talk to you one on one... trust me I'm the only one that can help you with this.. I had the same problem last year.. I know what it feels like...
     
    Solo_tremaine said:
    Do u have AIM? cause if You do, My AIM is Grape42000. AIM me if you have JbcBlank.
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    I don't have AIM.. I hate that everyone else does... but I don't.. only MSN and YahooMessenger... how do I go about getting AIM anyway?
     
    Look, don't throw your life away. If he loved you enough, he'd never ask you to throw away your future like that. Ask him if it's ok that you don't drop out. Dropping out will only ruin your chances of making a good living for yourself.
     
    Solo_tremaine said:
    Do you use AOL? cause if u do, they have an 'IM' button. How abnout we just PM about my situation. Ok?
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    Sure... PM me.. and I don't use AOL I don't like it...
     
    Just dump him now and save yourself the trouble of having to later...
     
    It will sound bad, but i recommend you to keep studying. How do you know that you will be with him forever? Ifyou go with him you will lose all except for your love, If you have a problem with him in the future, you will have wasted a great education for nothing.
     
    Yeah, Dump him. He obviously doesn't love you enough to give you a chance at a good future. High school is important.
     
    And don't forget to smash his car with a bat
     
    You know... it's a lot to give up, your schooling. It's kinda like giving up your future, in a way - and it's unfair of him to ask you to do that. Unless you don't want to continue with your education, I think you should tell him no. If he still won't accept no, then he obviously doesn't care about what _you_ want ultimately.
     
    Seems like everyone else here shares my same idea. If this man loves you, he'd let you finish. Real men respect their women, and if he respected you, he'd wait patiently and let you finish up. If he shows impatience, then he doesn't deserve ya.

    Wonder if I made sense just now.....@@ I haven't been up for too long.....not thinking entirely clearly.
     
    Well, most of the people here have said that already. But Ill just say it one more time.
    If you truly love him, and if he really does too, then he will underestand. If you drop high school, then trust me, you will regret it afterwards. We dont play with these things, graduating from high school will help you through your whole life. Talk to your boyfriend, tell him all about it...say that you love him, and as Ive said before, if he truly cares for you like you do for him he will accept it. True love need sacrifices. How else it would be called strong?
    I hope I made you make up your mind a bit, just think about it before doing anything.
    Good luck to you.
     
    Everyone else has already sayed it, but I'll say it one more time,

    If the man truly loves you he will understand if you say no and if he wouldn't he'd probaly ditch you sooner or later anyway. Are you truly willing to drop of your education in hope of that the man might stay loyal to you?
     
    Well OmG everyone ELSE has SAID it but I'll just be an ECHO and say it TOO!!

    Dump him...leave him...be done with it...
     
    Okay...this is just plain dumb.
    Don't drop out of high school for a guy, that's stupid.
    Just tell him that you need an education too and you won't drop out.
    If he keeps saying something like,"Aww c'mon do it" DUMP HIM. :)

    And this is pretty sad that you're asking a Pokemon forum on whether or not to drop out. >>

    EDIT: Woah woah woah...I reread your first post saying, "I JUST gto a new BF..."

    Don't do it.
     
    * sigh *

    ok, this guy,
    1. you only just got this guy as a boyfriend right? i think he is rushing it a little? honestly??
    2. I think if he loved you, he would let you finish youre education first, cause that would be weird if he didnt o.O
    3.is he a little weird, ( my opion ) be a little careful please ^^;;
     
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