I gotta problem

Think about it this way, Tremaine. I completely understand that you really love your boyfriend. But dropping out will do you no good. If he truly loves you and cares about how you choose to live your life, he will allow you to graduate and not leave you. But, if he leaves you because you wish to have a decent education, he doesn't love you nearly as much as he might say, or as much as you might believe.

Also, I'm guessing you're in 9th or 10th grade? (guessing by your age, please correct me if I'm wrong) If your relationship is truly meant to be, he can wait the 2-3 years for you to graduate.

Third, look at him. He's graduating. You should not allow someone to tell you to drop out and actually do it, especially if he's graduating. You'll only hurt yourself, especially if things don't go quite right in the end.

If you have any more questions or comments, feel free to PM me, and I'll reply as soon as I get it. I'll help you out as much as I can. ^_^ But for now, take this. *hands you a muffin*
 
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It's just silly. Take it from someone who REALLY knows.
 
Don't ya' ever drop outta school just because of a guy.. Just give him up.. If he really loves ya', he will let ya' continue schooling till' ya' graduate.. No point wasting time on a guy who wants ya' to give up something so important for his own selfish rights... High school ish important ya' know? It plays an important part in deciding your future..
 
x-treme scripter said:
Yeah, and even if he really loves ya, what if he just dies?
It would have been better if you didn't say that... In China, if you said that, you would be asking for it to happen.
 
x-treme scripter said:
Yeah, and even if he really loves ya, what if he just dies?


You`re...Really...o.o Okay, nevermind, I`ll get in trouble probably, if I continue that sentence. Let`s go with...Um...You`re really nice. Of course, that is sarcasm.


Anyway, about your boyfriend wanting you to drop out...That is sorta weird. I`d never want a girl to drop out for me. That`s just not cool, nor is it love. It`s kinda being selfish and wanting everything to go how you want it to.

But, anyway, yeah.

Dump him.
 
Camp Kill Yourself said:
You`re...Really...o.o Okay, nevermind, I`ll get in trouble probably, if I continue that sentence. Let`s go with...Um...You`re really nice. Of course, that is sarcasm.


Anyway, about your boyfriend wanting you to drop out...That is sorta weird. I`d never want a girl to drop out for me. That`s just not cool, nor is it love. It`s kinda being selfish and wanting everything to go how you want it to.

But, anyway, yeah.

Dump him.
That's right, it's being selfish... He's just wanting everything to go HIS way.
 
Allrighty here. I'm just going to take a bunch of answers from other people and combine them into one big one.
First off: do you love him enough to sacrifice the rest of your life? Most likely, the answer will be no. Why? Because in order for you to love him enough to sacrifice your future, he has to love YOU enough. And obviously, he doesn't, because he would WAIT for you to graduate and be happy with that choice. He would encourage you to graduate if he really and truly loved you. It may be hard to hear, and I'm very sorry to say it. I don't know you, but I know I just want to best for you, and any other people with the same problem. I have experience, trust me.
 
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