I. Unknown [/Discussion]

[Charizard★]

Have you ever felt like you were alone, no one cared for you? Isn't that like the worst feeling ever? [/Discuss] [/More to this topic will be added later]
Have you ever felt alone/unknown in a room full of people you care most about?

 

[Esper]

I'm sure we all feel alone and that no one cares for us when we're teenagers at sometime or another. Not to say that it isn't a justified feeling. People can be very selfish and self-centered. On the other hand it's really easy, insanely easy even, to care for someone because everyone knows what loneliness feels and can sympathize.

Lonely people gotta reach out to others. It just takes a little courage to face that chance of rejection. Some will push away but others won't. And the people being reached out to have to have courage, too, by showing sympathy which is being vulnerable in its own way. So, yeah, it takes both sides to help someone out and it doesn't happen every time, but it's something people have to keep doing for their own sake. Loneliness sucks.

 

[Charizard★]

I'm sure we all feel alone and that no one cares for us when we're teenagers at sometime or another. Not to say that it isn't a justified feeling. People can be very selfish and self-centered. On the other hand it's really easy, insanely easy even, to care for someone because everyone knows what loneliness feels and can sympathize.

Lonely people gotta reach out to others. It just takes a little courage to face that chance of rejection. Some will push away but others won't. And the people being reached out to have to have courage, too, by showing sympathy which is being vulnerable in its own way. So, yeah, it takes both sides to help someone out and it doesn't happen every time, but it's something people have to keep doing for their own sake. Loneliness sucks.

I agree, but sometimes there are those people that are left out. I know a kid in my 5th period class who no one talks to. I always see him by himself. I'm going to try to talk to him.

 

[Bay]

Honestly,sometimes I want to be alone. I love hanging out with family and friends, but there are times where I want to be alone and left at peace when I want to enjoy myself like reading a book, surfing online, or just listening to music. Sometimes I want to be left alone also if I'm doing something important like studying.

That doesn't mean though I want to be alone forever. There are times where I would rather hang out with family or friends then studying. The problem with me though is I get shy when meeting new people at first, like at a social networking event. Those times I feel alone because I'm not that great reaching out to new people and I get intimidated when there are groups already having conversations and I'm the quiet one. I know I need more help with that.

 

[Charizard★]

Honestly,sometimes I want to be alone. I love hanging out with family and friends, but there are times where I want to be alone and left at peace when I want to enjoy myself like reading a book, surfing online, or just listening to music. Sometimes I want to be left alone also if I'm doing something important like studying.

That doesn't mean though I want to be alone forever. There are times where I would rather hang out with family or friends then studying. The problem with me though is I get shy when meeting new people at first, like at a social networking event. Those times I feel alone because I'm not that great reaching out to new people and I get intimidated when there are groups already having conversations and I'm the quiet one. I know I need more help with that.

Yea, but can't you agree that there are some people in this world that have no one or don't want anyone. That they just want to be unknown or they want to be known but they can't.

 

[Bay]

Yea, buy can't you agree that there are some people in this world that have no one or don't want anyone. That they just want to be unknown or they want to be known but they can't.

Yeah, I agree with that. I heard those people that are alone and are content with it (usually the lonely woman with cats kind ^^; ). Also I know there are people that want to be known but are having a hard time (like me when meeting new people at first). I was just saying I don't like to be alone and would like to be known but there are at certain times where I want some peace to myself.

 

[Charizard★]

Yeah, I agree with that. I heard those people that are alone and are content with it (usually the lonely woman with cats kind ^^; ). Also I know there are people that want to be known but are having a hard time (like me when meeting new people at first). I was just saying I don't like to be alone and would like to be known but there are at certain times where I want some peace to myself.

Most people like living normally, but I have wondered how people who don't want to have friends or can't get any friends. Yesterday I saw a kid who I've known for 11 years and he has been alone this whole time.

 

[Idiot!]

I probably don't mind being alone, but sometimes people just have to approach me. If they are asking for help, I try to give it, in hopes they'll leave me alone when they are done. If it's for conversation that I am not interested in, I'll relate it in a way that people don't like to listen to, and usually, they'll leave because nobody likes listening to hated or feared topics. Sometimes I do feel there's something wrong somewhere if nobody approaches me for a long time, even then, I shrug the feeling off because I am not inclined to do something about my being lonely.

 

[>Feelings<]

Have you ever felt like you were alone, no one cared for you? Isn't that like the worst feeling ever? [/Discuss] [/More to this topic will be added later]
Have you ever felt alone/unknown in a room full of people you care most about?

Ever felt like? Look at my nature over my post, lol.
You can't say I'm just over-exaggerating. I really am lonely in a few aspects, and I feel internet is at least a place where I can talk to people.
It is one of the worst feeling in my viewpoint.

The irony is one of my favourite things to do is socialize with good people. Yet there is no one in my place in real life fitting the definition. I have my little brother to accompany me when I need to talk though.

The feeling of loneliness is, in my opinion, nowhere near selfish. Happiness a need and necessity for human, for which the absence of loneliness is very important in most cases, including mine.

A room full of people I care about is impossible, because in real life I have no one I care about except my little brother and my own self.
Does that make me selfish? Probably. But it's a truth that no one can deny that you are the most important person to yourself.

I agree, but sometimes there are those people that are left out. I know a kid in my 5th period class who no one talks to. I always see him by himself. I'm going to try to talk to him.

I must praise you for this move you've decided. If you will try to talk, I advice you give the attempt of yours a feeling of friendship rather than a feeling of sympathy.
Most lonely people don't like sympathy, from my experience.

 

[Katria]

I guess I have felt alone at some point in my life. But I really can't recall at all. I'd say that I feel left out at times since my mom doesn't let me go out with friends on the weekends. Then my friends tell me all about the fun they had on Monday mornings. Aahhh I'm so jealous!!! xD

I love socializing with people though. If there's someone who's lonely or isn't talking with anyone, I would bring a friend of mine over and we'd talk with the person.

 

[sabapple]

I'm always alone, for what, um.... 6 or 7 years now? Back in the day, our two middle schools merged together and I got put in classes with kids from the other schools, and I wasn't too good at making friends.... Well, I ended up not talking to any of them and so I kinda lost all of my friends from my old school..... The next year I got put with all of my friends again but I was so used to not talking to anyone, so I didn't talk to them. It's been the same ever since, sheesh, sometimes people will come up to me in the hallway and ask me if I can talk... -_-;; People always make fun of me for not talking... Sheesh, kids these days, But I'm not lonely, I'm content with everything, but yeah..... Never been lonely, I suppose there's people who like to be alone.....