It's hard to be pressured by a family; I've never been pressured so I've had to find ways to motivate myself, but the fear of disappointing your loved ones is a dangerous thing and a powerful tool of influence. I wish for the life of wealth and comfort only to reverse my family's fortunes and to give money to charity that, should it be given to someone else, would just go to purchase needless things. My conformity, if that is what I choose, is going to be a benefit to society, and that should be the goal of anyone who chooses convention over their own desired way of life. Do whatever makes you happy as long as it doesn't harm yourself, stains your conscience, or is detrimental to society; and if a career in anime and manga is what you want, you'll be very happy in it and, if success comes your way, your family will respect you for it.