i didn't ask lmfao. i never really cared to know, so i never brought it up with my parents. i learned through school. had i asked my mom, she probably would have just told me "from mommy's tummy" which isn't a total lie, but just dumbed down. if i had asked my dad on the other hand, he probably would have told me straight up. even when i was very little, he took me seriously and would just be honest with me. which led to me going to him first if i ever had any questions lol. i think honesty (within reason - like you don't need to explain the entire process like fallopian tubes n shit to like. a four year old) is the best policy when it comes to this stuff.
edit: just remembered that my dad bought my an encylopedia set when i was about 9? and it had a human body section, including these like. see through pages with the process of a fetus growing. like you turned the pages and saw it develop more. so like there was no hiding it from me that they grew in the uterus, i just don't think i understood how that was made until they taught us at school when we learned reproduction. also a scary thing - i didn't know you had to actively participate in sex. like i thought the penis slithered into the vagina like a snake. i blame that 'mom turn your headlights on there's a snake in your garden' joke i heard at a young age. and that joke is a PRIME example of why NOT to use stupid names for genitals.
edit: just remembered that my dad bought my an encylopedia set when i was about 9? and it had a human body section, including these like. see through pages with the process of a fetus growing. like you turned the pages and saw it develop more. so like there was no hiding it from me that they grew in the uterus, i just don't think i understood how that was made until they taught us at school when we learned reproduction. also a scary thing - i didn't know you had to actively participate in sex. like i thought the penis slithered into the vagina like a snake. i blame that 'mom turn your headlights on there's a snake in your garden' joke i heard at a young age. and that joke is a PRIME example of why NOT to use stupid names for genitals.
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