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The message is really for anyone who gets depressed at this stuff. People waste their lives living in fear, which is worthless. Doing some of the things I mentioned is a far better use of ones time.I more or less agree with the majority of what you've (and Coffee) said so far, except for this part. How exactly does this help at all? Just "doing what you can" and "Life is what you make of it. Do nothing and you are nothing. Help out, and you become somebody" quite frankly sounds a bit naive to me. Doing something does not automatically make you "something/somebody". There is no guarantee that doing what you can will actually have any impact or meaning.
There is nothing that automatically makes you a great person. That is something one strives for. Frankly, it's naive to think you can't do something that will have meaning. Impact and meaning aren't defined by "Oh, gotta find the cure to cancer. Oh, gotta help everything I can! Oh, gotta go to foreign countries to help children find clean water!" It's not defined by being super well known, or being rich, donating huge sums of money to charity. Saying that such things are unnecessary, and don't really have meaning is again, useless.
Listen, I know I can't help everyone possible in the world, it simply is not gonna happen. But you know, that doesn't make cleaning up garbage off the street, for example, useless. I've had several people thank me when I did so, people walking around, or just driving, and perhaps I have inspired people in these cars to do similar, or believe change is possible. Sure, no one knows me, but who cares? That's not what generosity or meaning is to me. I know that by doing such simple, obvious things, it does help the community.
I create meaning in such actions, but I am only one person. Imagine if every single person, just random people, cleaned up a single piece of garbage for a year in your city. I believe it would be clean by the end of it, even if 20 percent of the people kept throwing down garbage. And that's just a single example. Imagine if we did various helpful things, in our own communities. That would be meaningful, and far more meaningful then being scared of cleaning up garbage with someone, because "the news makes me think random people are suddenly going to shoot me."
I know, it's a bit repetitive, but it's a valid point. It both addresses the very question of the fear, and it's a solution to the problem of failing communities, where no one even knows each other. Communities like that are places of fear, because anything goes.
To summarize, meaning isn't appealing to the world, or doing world class help. It's really what you give it, and in our discussion, doing helpful things in our own communities and building unity between us, is better then doing nothing, complaining and wishing that someone would do something, or living in fear of each other. "I will do this" is more useful then, "I wish someone would do this." "I will be afraid." Is useless compared to "I will be brave."
This one was a bit hard to write, and I don't know how well I got it across, but there it is. Thanks for reading!