The Post Your Problems Thread

[Cruelty And The Beast]

Pokefan32, maybe you should just talk to Jared. It doesn't matter what the people in your class think, so long as Gabriel knows you're just mates and Jared knows that too.
I know it probably gets on your nerves what the other people are saying, but it's not really worth compromising your friendship for, I'm guessing.

 

[Midnight Beat]

I have a bit of a problem. Well its not really a problem.

Im just feeling really angry lately. I dont know what at or who at.

I have adults that keep telling me to do obvious things which I really dont care about and wont do.
Ive failed nearly all my G.C.S.E's because I didnt do most of the coursework.
Ive nearly finished my exams and leaveing school. Should i really be angry round this time? Its meant to be a great time.
My friend pisses me off when ever he comes round.
I have to write a letter to my mum.
Im always bored because I have nothing to do.
:(
can someone attempt to help please.

I feel you on this one, I had the same problem about 2 months ago. It's not a good feeling, is it?
Anyway, I have some advice that may help you perk up a bit. Something I found that really helped me was an outlet for my anger. What I did was tape up my hands, put on some lightweight boxing gloves, and just freaking unloaded on a heavy bag. It worked really well, but it wasn't enough, like yourself, I was just bored with life. You need to find a long term hobby to keep yourself busy. I personally work on old vehicles, it's fun, challenging, and there's nothing like hearing that engine roar to life after you've put weeks and weeks of your time into it. You need to find an activity that really excites you, it puts you in just a better general mood, and makes you much more likable to the people around you as well.

 

[.Seth]

does any1 care about the ROM master?

nobody on here seems to care about me. no1 has posted or even looked at my welcome thread. (sigh). isn't there somebody that cares?

 

[Midnight Beat]

nobody on here seems to care about me. no1 has posted or even looked at my welcome thread. (sigh). isn't there somebody that cares?

Chill out, dude. You posted the thread roughly a hour and half ago, give it some time. And it's not like a lot of people are on right now. I'm not sure where you live, but it's somewhere around midnight in the all around the US, and that's where the majority of the user here are from. Oh, and your sig isn't exactly helping your cause. >>

 

[BeachBoy]

nobody on here seems to care about me. no1 has posted or even looked at my welcome thread. (sigh). isn't there somebody that cares?

Some people get 9 welcomes, some get 1, some don't even get a welcome at all. (That's pretty rare though)

Patience is a virtue, and I'm sure someone will welcome you, just give it time. :) As Midnight said, it's midnight and we're not oh so active like "POSTED THREAD = immediate replies" Uh no. Just wait, and you'll get a welcome. ^^ Just because you post an introduction and don't get a welcome ASAP doesn't mean we don't care about you. So, cool off, sit back & surf PC, then you may get a nice warm welcome later on. :D

 

[Nick]

nobody on here seems to care about me. no1 has posted or even looked at my welcome thread. (sigh). isn't there somebody that cares?

I wouldn't say no one cares about you, seeing as how nobody knows you. XD
With that being said, it's not really possible to say no one cares about you without getting to know them. From what I see, people have viewed your thread. Probably, a reason no one (but one) has replied to it would be because they are just busy. I read threads all the time, myself, but only post in it if I find something to reply about. Since I, myself, didn't find anything else to say "Welcome to PC", I didn't reply. Most of my replies are generally rather long posts in that section, which I tend to try to do my best. Having only that is hard for me to do, let alone not allowed. It would be better if you edit that and explain why you are feeling upset and had have put a few more details about yourself. That's usually what I look for in intros and then I try to reply to it so that it only applies to you. But, that's just me. As far as actually caring, post around more and try to have a lot of detail in them. Most people here enjoy reading posts that have detail and are on the medium-long side. XD

Chill out, dude. You posted the thread roughly a hour and half ago, give it some time. And it's not like a lot of people are on right now. I'm not sure where you live, but it's somewhere around midnight in the all around the US, and that's where the majority of the user here are from. Oh, and your sig isn't exactly helping your cause. >>

I'm gonna have to agree with that. It's a little strange, but if you like it, that's up to you. Who am I to tell you what to put in your signature? XD But you should at least consider changing it to a nice quote or a banner of some sort. Another tip would be to try typing with some letters the way they "should" be. Most people here, yet again, tend to reply to threads that have correct punctuation, spelling, etc.

Changing your occupation would be a good idea too. I tend to look at someone's profile to get to know a bit more about them before interacting with them and seeing you fart for a living isn't helping either.. rather a turn off. XD

 

[doesn't matter]

I have a bit of a problem. Well its not really a problem.

Im just feeling really angry lately. I dont know what at or who at.

I have adults that keep telling me to do obvious things which I really dont care about and wont do.
Ive failed nearly all my G.C.S.E's because I didnt do most of the coursework.
Ive nearly finished my exams and leaveing school. Should i really be angry round this time? Its meant to be a great time.
My friend pisses me off when ever he comes round.
I have to write a letter to my mum.
Im always bored because I have nothing to do.
:(
can someone attempt to help please.

In all seriousness, this is known as "Angry Teenage Boy" phase.

Well, not seriously, but you get what I mean, haha. I think a lot of guys go through this, myself included, and I think the best thing for yourself to do is it to talk about some of the things that are troubling you, and maybe try and put things into perspective. I know that you're at the computer a lot, so maybe try and get away from it for a bit longer each day.

Anyway, just remember what you enjoy doing and if you feel like you're getting angry just try and stop yourself to ask "why?" I hope you feel better soon.

 

[Tamaki]

nobody on here seems to care about me. no1 has posted or even looked at my welcome thread. (sigh). isn't there somebody that cares?

Aww, sorry if you feel left out. Like Ryan said, some people get tons of welcomes, some people only get a couple or none. Doesn't mean we don't care.

This isn't the welcome thread, but welcome to PC anyways :3 You'll find friends, trust me. You can even talk to me if you want a friend to chat with ^.^

Hope I could help ya.

 

[Tré]

my problem is why do people hate me even i didn't do anything....like just sitting in my chair...and then someone annoys me....T~T

 

[Mao]

I have a problem at school As always xD

Anyway basicly everyone likes me the way I am, I make them laugh and I have fun, eat loads and don't care what people think. Lately, however I have been thinking to change my attitiude and be more "Mature" It's really rubbish because my friends like me the way I am and If I change i don't know what will happen. I don't want to change but lately I've been meaning to.

I'm only 13 and I'm in my second year in Secondary School.

 

[.Seth]

You be who you want to be. If you want to be more mature, then be more mature. If you want to stay who you are, then stay who you are.

 

[Zet]

I have a problem at school As always xD

Anyway basicly everyone likes me the way I am, I make them laugh and I have fun, eat loads and don't care what people think. Lately, however I have been thinking to change my attitiude and be more "Mature" It's really rubbish because my friends like me the way I am and If I change i don't know what will happen. I don't want to change but lately I've been meaning to.

I'm only 13 and I'm in my second year in Secondary School.

A change will always happen sometime in your high school life, though some may never change, I see that some changes are good while others aren't but as long as your friends will still like you for you thats all thats important

 

[Mao]

You be who you want to be. If you want to be more mature, then be more mature. If you want to stay who you are, then stay who you are.

Thanks a lot, Seth. I'll be who I want to be and have fun at school. I've got my whole life ahead of me right? So why not enjoy it. God I sound like a teacher *shudder*

Edit: Thanks as well Aniki, I will realise these Changes as i grow up and try to make sure I keep the good ones :).

 

[Cruelty And The Beast]

You're your own person, other people maybe be close but they don't define who you are.
If you feel more mature you won't get anything but frustrated pretending to be someone you're not anymore.
Just be yourself dude, it can be hard at times, but it's worth it.

 

[Tamaki]

my problem is why do people hate me even i didn't do anything....like just sitting in my chair...and then someone annoys me....T~T

Awh, I know just how you feel. Some people just hate me for no apparant reason.

I've asked my friends what they think, and they usually sy either they're a)just idiots or b)jealous. They're probably right.

Just be happy you have friends who know how to treat you right. Life is too short to worry about jealous idiots who don't know how to live :3 Ignore them~

 

[.Seth]

. . .

(sigh) My problem is that i have trouble when i post a thread. Mine always end up closed. I guess what i'm tryin to say is that i can never figure out how to post a thread where it will not end up closed, will not seem completely stupid,and make it so that someone will actually look at it.

 

[Victoria~]

You should read the forum rules first.
I know that rules suck and all, but if you read them, at least you won't get embarassed... When you're posting a thread, think if it has a useful purpose (ou something near of it x.x) and if it has something to do with the area you're posting. Like, you can't create a hack rom thread, for instance, in the section that only has the tutorials to create one.. you know what I mean?
I saw that you are having a bit of a hard time here since you're new... I'm a new member aswell, so I don't who I am to advise you here, but let's go.
Sometimes, when you're not used to be on forums, it's kinda hard to adapt. But don't give up.. be yourself, don't matter if you look weird or don't have any friends yet. They come as tiime passes byy.. sooner or later :]
Be careful to not look noob, because the first impression is important.. being gramatically correct helps :x
And not doing thinks against the forum rules (or members) helps a lot. I think you should read the rules thread, just to know the basics; it's waaay better to know the rules before posting than learning them while posting :T
You should see who are the "top members" and try to act like them. I mean, NOT THEIR STYLE, but as an example of how to behave correctly in the forum.

 

[Nick]

(sigh) My problem is that i have trouble when i post a thread. Mine always end up closed. I guess what i'm tryin to say is that i can never figure out how to post a thread where it will not end up closed, will not seem completely stupid,and make it so that someone will actually look at it.

Well, for one, they don't always end up closed. You can't say that unless all of your posts end up closed. You only posted three threads. One, of which, wasn't following the rules and the other wasn't needed. Nothing wrong with that, really, since you are new and it takes a while for most people to get into new rules regardless of the community. In order to stop making threads that might end up closed, you have to do exactly what Victoria said to do; read the rules. But you also have to abide by them. It's one thing to read them, it's another thing to follow them. Another idea would be to stick around and view some other threads. That'll help you learn what threads won't end up locked and what will.

A good idea would be to wait a few weeks until you post a new thread, unless of course you need to, then feel more than free. After all, the final decision is up to you. But you should really get to know the community (rules, people, etc.) before posting a new thread (well, that's my opinion on it). That way you know what kind of threads are allowed (as stated above) and what kinds aren't.

Also, if I may add to the fact that you also stated in one of your threads:

Moderators feel free to close, move, or do whatever with this thread. And feel free to be descriptive.

Well, Hiroshi was descriptive as to why that thread wasn't allowed, so why your confused is a bit of a daze to me, but very well. You also, although I don't think it would have mattered, stated that they can do whatever they feel like with the thread (i.e. giving them "permission" to close the thread, delete it, modify it in any way, shape or form). So,.. yeah. XD

If u wud like to help and get ur name on the credits, Email me at ___ thnks. Also if u have any ideas for the game post them in the thread.

Note: I removed the email from the quote just in case you didn't want anyone to see it.

That seems to me like you were trying to recruit a team, which should have went in team building if you were trying to do that... but then you gave information (rather rudely) about the game itself, which wipes out that theory. XD Then Careful with that Axe, Pichu stated that you didn't read the rules, which to me is enough of an explanation to help me understand.

 

[LawlRly]

I have an insomnia related problem. D:

So, it's like this: Every morning, be it weekend or weekday, I wake up at exactly 5:30 AM. I'm serious, not a minute sooner. Wide awake. Now, I don't have to be up until 6:30, so I usually just fall back asleep *somehow*, but then I fall into such a deep sleep of state that an hour later, when I actually need to be awake, I am so tired I can hardly breathe, let alone get out of bed. You know the feeling when you've taken one too many Tylenol 3s? Yeah, it's like that.

I've tried getting up at 5:30 and wandering around for a bit, but my energy only lasts until 6 AM, at which point all my muscles stop working and I begin to fall asleep. So I do this little cycle every friggin' morning: Wake up at 5:30, fall asleep again at roughly 6, wake up dead tired at 6:30, regain my energy after I've had some tea. But I am REALLY tired of feeling so awful in the morning, like a weight is in my stomach. I dunno what's up.

And another thing, I always fall asleep at EXACTLY 11 at night. If I don't go to bed before then, I won't fall asleep until 4:30, then wake up at 5:30, etc., you get the idea. From 11 PM to 4:30 AM all I am really doing is counting plaster bumps on my ceiling. :x

Any help here?

 

[Lash]

Probably not all too bad of a problem to complain about, but...

Alright, I am going to be a Sophomore when school comes around. I got a boundary acceptance to a good school, and I barely ever get into good schools. So, some may think I got it all set up, but heres the problem.

I am a person of dark attire. I will be going to a school of preps. And, oh god, when it comes to preps, I am the biggest freaking stereotypical ass whole. The first snob that complains about how I dress gets one darned good fist across the face. Now we all know that won't be good since I had to get a boundary acceptance to get into this school >_>

So, I do need some advice not to fly off the handle.

EDIT: And, sorry if this has offended you if you are a prep. This is not an attack to all preps, just the ones in my state... The ones in my state are real jerks >_>