The Post Your Problems Thread

[4th Gen Matt]

Well me and my best friend started high school a couple of weeks ago and shes been going off with people and leaving me alone. I guessed i should make my self involved but she just pushes me away.
Me and my friends told my tutor and he hada word with her on monday but now she just yells at me for doing the right things for me and my friends. I told my mum and dad and they said they are gonna have a word with her mum and she still acts like an over sized baby!!!
HELP!!!!

I know what you mean. I do not even talk to my old best friend since he got a new girlfriend. Not to mention she is a total whore.

I have the same lunch period as him and haven't talked to him in a month.

I talk to his little brother on Xbox Live more then I talk to him.

High school sucks.

 

[Yu_&_Rei]

Alright well that guy was walking me to all my classes, even when I said " um I gotta go to the library and finish up my work and I need to be ALONE!!" he still followed me, and because today I was literally wearing all blue with an accent of white, he complimented it but what really annoyed me is when he said "can't you just wear a mix and match?" as in he wants me to change my style? well I like to wear matching colours and I'm not sure what I'm gonna do with him, my friends say I should be friends with him because hes a really "cool" guy but I'm kinda getting annoyed by him but then he'll start acting really nice all of a sudden, he even said (to my amuse) that he'll come and see me at my tennis tutorials that I'm gonna be taching for kids, and he says he already knows where it is cuz he saw me there the other day, now I'm starting to think he's a creeper.

 

[Midnight Beat]

Alright well that guy was walking me to all my classes, even when I said " um I gotta go to the library and finish up my work and I need to be ALONE!!" he still followed me, and because today I was literally wearing all blue with an accent of white, he complimented it but what really annoyed me is when he said "can't you just wear a mix and match?" as in he wants me to change my style? well I like to wear matching colours and I'm not sure what I'm gonna do with him, my friends say I should be friends with him because hes a really "cool" guy but I'm kinda getting annoyed by him but then he'll start acting really nice all of a sudden, he even said (to my amuse) that he'll come and see me at my tennis tutorials that I'm gonna be taching for kids, and he says he already knows where it is cuz he saw me there the other day, now I'm starting to think he's a creeper.

Well that certainly add new light to the situation. Forget what I said last time. He's obviously kinda of a pain in rear to you, that can be handled very easily. Here's what you do. You look him straight in the eyes, and tell him that you appreciate whatever it is that he's trying to do for you, but that you can do without his advice and that you would prefer if he would just leave you alone. Now if that doesn't work, you take a more aggressive approach. You get right up in his face and tell him to back the [insert word of choice here] off and to keep his distance from you. I don't know how big you are, but it doesn't take size to be intimidating, it takes confidence. Good luck~

 

[Aurafire]

Alright well that guy was walking me to all my classes, even when I said " um I gotta go to the library and finish up my work and I need to be ALONE!!" he still followed me, and because today I was literally wearing all blue with an accent of white, he complimented it but what really annoyed me is when he said "can't you just wear a mix and match?" as in he wants me to change my style? well I like to wear matching colours and I'm not sure what I'm gonna do with him, my friends say I should be friends with him because hes a really "cool" guy but I'm kinda getting annoyed by him but then he'll start acting really nice all of a sudden, he even said (to my amuse) that he'll come and see me at my tennis tutorials that I'm gonna be taching for kids, and he says he already knows where it is cuz he saw me there the other day, now I'm starting to think he's a creeper.

I'd have to agree with Midnight Beat...It might take a bit of an aggressive approach from him to get the message. Confidence is the key, and a little of it will go a long way in situations like this. Once this guy sees that you are very serious, he should back off.

 

[Yu_&_Rei]

well I don't think I've ever been aggresive but I'll try, he also showed up to my tennis lessons while I was teaching, I got so shocked while I was teaching the kids that I dropped my racquet and the kids were throwing tennis balls at me to get me to continue teaching, I tell him kindly to leave which he does, when I finish teaching he comes back again!! (well the cat does always come back) but this time his other jock friend came along (the one I despise the most) and he starts mocking me for having too much expensive equipment in which my stalker gets him to shutup, luckily the bus driver kicked them off cuz they were too noisy. I see him at school today and I told him nicely that " we're too different and maybe we shouldn't continue being friends cuz you're friends are too much the opposite of me" and yet again he decided to sit beside me in my history class but I'm gonna take you're guys' advice and tell it to him straight with attitude and I will look angry. never done this to anyone before but I'll eventually have to do this sometime. thanks guys!!

 

[Midnight Beat]

but I'm gonna take you're guys' advice and tell it to him straight with attitude and I will look angry. never done this to anyone before but I'll eventually have to do this sometime. thanks guys!!

Good for you! o/
Be careful though, you don't want it to get physical.

 

[Yu_&_Rei]

I never get physical, although my one of my friends who is really strong (although his muscles don't show) might end up going after him if he finds out, I know that fighting never solves anything.

 

[Midnight Beat]

I never get physical, although my one of my friends who is really strong (although his muscles don't show) might end up going after him if he finds out, I know that fighting never solves anything.

All right, good. I just wanted to make sure you didn't get the wrong idea from what I said. I feel really bad if something happened to you because you thought I meant you should start a fight with this loser.

 

[Cynic Kaka]

Ok.

I guess I'll start with what happened at school a few weeks ago.


We were discussing diseases in school, and then ADHD came up, and my teacher told us kids with ADHD live shorter lies than others.

Ever since then, I've been upset, not getting any sleep, and wondering what happens after death. I just can't goddamn take it anymore! >_<

P.S.: No, I'm not mistaking ADHD with AIDS.

 

[Aurafire]

Ok.

I guess I'll start with what happened at school a few weeks ago.


We were discussing diseases in school, and then ADHD came up, and my teacher told us kids with ADHD live shorter lies than others.

Ever since then, I've been upset, not getting any sleep, and wondering what happens after death. I just can't goddamn take it anymore! >_<

It's perfectly normal to be curious and perhaps even a little frightened about what happens after death. It's natural for all people to contemplate their own mortality and I think frankly something is wrong with you if you're not a little nervous about it. If it's really getting you down, I would suggest not worrying about things like that and concentrating on all the good things you have in life, like your friends and family. I've been there...and I was distressed just like you. Eventually, you need to find acceptance from wherever you see fit and not think about it anymore. It might be hard, but just knowing that your mind will be at ease is reason enough to think positive thoughts. Concentrate on those good vibes, and you'll be fine! =P

 

[Yu_&_Rei]

All right, good. I just wanted to make sure you didn't get the wrong idea from what I said. I feel really bad if something happened to you because you thought I meant you should start a fight with this loser.

its fine, I don't think I could ever start fights, when there is a fight that is about me tho I get a lot of ppl fighting for me :P, but yes I just have to wait till tomorrow to talk to him.

 

[Samurai X]

Okay, I have a serious problem here that has to do with school. As you know there are people who tend to be more creative and have trouble with math and vice versa. Well, I am a person who likes facts, therefore I like subjects like science, math, and history where I am being taught with facts, numbers, formulas, and accounts from the past that are verifiable. The thing is that I am a horrible student when it comes to English, art and other subjects that have to do with abstract or philosophical ideas, though I love reading. I am passing my math, biology, chemistry and history classes with ease. On the other hand I have already dropped out of my art class, not painting and the like but the idea and theory of art, and I am failing English so bad I would have to get nearly every single point left in the semester to barely pass. How is it possible to fail this badly? I think that I am in an English class beyond my abilities but the thing is that I tested into this class so it technically wouldn't be, the problem though is that the test was mainly about sentence structure and the constructive properties of English and not the abstract and deeper meanings behind language. The main problem with this is that these classes are required in order for me to get my degree. My major is in biochemistry while my minor is in molecular biology/genetics as it goes hand in hand with my major. I don't want these classes to get in the way of my major and getting my degree but I am just plain not interested in them. I think that may be the big picture, I am just not interested. Anyway, I have asked around and people say I should just take a break on those classes while focusing on my bread and butter. What do you guys think about this? Any advice on this situation and how would one go about getting more interested in those subjects? I feel like just quitting some times, It's so frustrating to even think about it and at some times I feel depressed. I hate those classes, I wish there was a way around them.The worst part is that I already failed the same English class last semester, although with a different professor. I need your help PC, I really do.

 

[/Circa]

Okay, I have a serious problem here that has to do with school. As you know there are people who tend to be more creative and have trouble with math and vice versa. Well, I am a person who likes facts, therefore I like subjects like science, math, and history where I am being taught with facts, numbers, formulas, and accounts from the past that are verifiable. The thing is that I am a horrible student when it comes to English, art and other subjects that have to do with abstract or philosophical ideas, though I love reading. I am passing my math, biology, chemistry and history classes with ease. On the other hand I have already dropped out of my art class, not painting and the like but the idea and theory of art, and I am failing English so bad I would have to get nearly every single point left in the semester to barely pass. How is it possible to fail this badly? I think that I am in an English class beyond my abilities but the thing is that I tested into this class so it technically wouldn't be, the problem though is that the test was mainly about sentence structure and the constructive properties of English and not the abstract and deeper meanings behind language. The main problem with this is that these classes are required in order for me to get my degree. My major is in biochemistry while my minor is in molecular biology/genetics as it goes hand in hand with my major. I don't want these classes to get in the way of my major and getting my degree but I am just plain not interested in them. I think that may be the big picture, I am just not interested. Anyway, I have asked around and people say I should just take a break on those classes while focusing on my bread and butter. What do you guys think about this? Any advice on this situation and how would one go about getting more interested in those subjects? I feel like just quitting some times, It's so frustrating to even think about it and at some times I feel depressed. I hate those classes, I wish there was a way around them.The worst part is that I already failed the same English class last semester, although with a different professor. I need your help PC, I really do.

English is a very factual subject, especially in the grammar section and so on. The easiest way to pass English is too listen real hard, or if your getting distracted by your friends as I do every class, just make sure you get your stuff in on time and not worry to much about it. You sound very smart so I reckon you'll be able to handle it.

If your having problems with classes you need for your degree, concentrate less on subjects you dont really need at all, even if you really like them.

Sorry if i'm not a help, im only in year 9 :P.

 

[Aipomfan13]

I've got a question and it seems to be a big problem.

I love to role play and i would love to join a rpg or create one, but my grammar sucks and I can't spell that great and I'm only 24, I grew up being in special led classes for that problem. I'm good at everything else like drawing, driving, working, taking care of my son. I just have a learning disorder and its really hard to work with Grammar and saying things the right way.

and people are already starting to treat me like I'm a 10 year old on here because of my spelling and grammar, and I really don't like it. I tired to join an RPG for sign up and they are saying my grammar sucks and only if I fix it then I can join. But what I type always seems fine to me and most of my friends can understand my bad spelling.

I'm pretty smart when it comes to things, just not smart at the wording of things, getting things right and so on. So um like what do I do about it leave what I got in my sign and hope people understand its not nice to make fun of people with disorders? because its like saying your making fun of someone whom has to stay in a wheel chair or someone that is mental and they can't help it. Some people can't help it, they try and try and try to make things right.

I just feel like every message board I go to its not right how people treat others because their spelling isn't 10000 % good like theirs and if they aren't they can't join their rpg group.

 

[Cherrim]

Have you tried writing posts in Microsoft Word, or some other word processor that has spellcheck AND grammarcheck? At the very least, it should fix up your messages and maybe once you see the changes it asks you to make, you'll start getting the hang of how to write correctly. Or, alternatively, if you have a friend who excels at spelling/grammar, you could have him/her proofread your posts intended for RP and fix them up for you. (And, if possible, explain why some things need to be corrected so you can try not to make the mistake again in the future.)

 

[Aipomfan13]

but I don't have that program on the computer, after the computer crashed my fiance hasn't been able to find the Microsoft Word, I'd have to ask my Dad to make another copy of it.

But I still think its wrong for people to dis people just because of their spelling, not everyone is 1000% perfect and won't ever be as perfect as most people, and i just think its very wrong the way some people are.

 

[Aurafire]

Do you make it clear that you have a learning disorder when you're signing up? I can't imagine that they wouldn't be understanding of something like that. If there are any real problems with your grammar, they are certainly minor, because you get your thoughts across quite well for someone with a learning disorder in my opinion...

I hope you have better luck with this in the future! ^_^

 

[F-F-Franklin]

Getting all A's and B's for a new Gs320 and a Babydeath fisheye.

I'm one lazy ass.

 

[Chibi-chan]

This was going to be considered spam but...are you saying you're trying to get A's and B's but you're too lazy?

I say study. >:

 

[True Reign]

My mom tells me I have to get all A's or B's by the end of this week or I will have both of my computers plus my DS taken away... Can I do it?

Grades:
Science - A
Geography - B
P.E. - A
English - C
Spanish - C
Math - B

I got Geography, Math, and Spanish covered, but English is going to be hard. I just got another F on my assignment today at school and I only have 1 more chance for a low B.