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Would you give him/her another chance?

Would you give him/her another chance?


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Hm, with me, it really depends on who it was. I mean, it'd really hurt if it was someone who I really believed in and loved, but I'd definitely forgive them over time if I liked them enough to actually go out with them in the first place. I'd give it time, and let the person... change, kind of shake off the restraints, and sort of move on from the phase if we really wanted to try having a relationship again. It'd have to be someone who's personality and disposition I really understand well. (Sure I'd be like, "Woah, I didn't know you as well as I thought I did", but it's like, I wouldn't just write them off.)

And if I caught any high or low wind about a possiblity of a second round, I'd just break up with them first. There's as much hurt as the first time, but I think that hurt would really be worth it if I liked them enough.

And I don't put any interest in someone who I don't like to that degree anyway. o_o
 
To err is human, to forgive divine.

With that in mind, I'm usually forgiving if it's someone I really care for, and I have made that decision before.Thrice, even. For the same person. It is truly something I'm ashamed of now that I look at it.

Shiharu's post really hits it point for point what I've had in mind on the subject.
 
Depends. I mean, I'd like to say no, but society thinks it's just easier to end everything and leave it broken rather than try to fix it - just look at the rise in divorce rates (while they all aren't due to someone cheating, many are certainly due to a lack of effort from both sides).

So if she wants to try and make it work and I'm not too caught up in my rage, I think I'd like to give it another shot. As I said though, it depends.
 
I doubt it, first of all
They may say that they still like you, but if thats so, then why would they cheat on you in the first place.

and 2nd,
Why should they get a 2nd chance?
 
God gives second chances *gets shot by Buddhists*.

As long we are not married, I would forgive. It would only grow sexual for a while anyways. She will cheat on me later on and I'll find someone else.

I can't help it. I want to follow my rule: Get your damn girlfriend at any opportunity.
 
Umm, no.
Why would you do that? All they're doing is saying that they'd rather be with someone else, except using body language.
 
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