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[Kura]

Sometimes, when you do, it's VERY hard to get out when you know something's wrong. One of my old friends now drinks profusely, but even though I don't want to be around her when she does, I can't just abandon her....

It's really difficult when put in a situation like that.

Yeah~ I can understand what you mean there, too~
But it's not like she's harming you. She's not forcing you to drink or anything of the like~ Right?

Is that so?

@the giant post: Those are some harsh words but there's nothing to worry. Peeps in the internet are always cursing at one another and you never know if its a little boy or a strange old man. One example is the Youtube comments that the people leave at Youtube. I just laugh at the way they curse at each other.

I still can't believe this is my fourth post..I used to be very active~

I dunno if I should take the harsh words out, because it's a direct quote and it's under a spoiler.. ._.; I'll do it if someone tells me to, though~ Just in case~

>> I find some Youtube comments to be pathetic~

 

[Beatrice]

People are more fun to look at than they are to interact with IMO. Much more safer too D:

@Kura: No, she's not harming me; just putting me in very uncomfortable situations... Yeah she's asked me to drink once or twice though. My negative response was responded with some claims that I'm 'not her real friend' then and such, but...yeah.

 

[Kura]

It's better than doubting everyone, right? ^^ You've got good qualities, don't forget that~

;_; Awh~ Thanks!!! *huggles tightly*

When did you say that you thought she was ugly?

And her manner of talking is definitely ... odd.

That's the point. I NEVER said she was ugly. I have no idea what the heck she's talking about!
o_o She told herself she was ugly, and then I told her that she wasn't! I don't understand why she's saying the opposite!!

@Kura: No, she's not harming me; just putting me in very uncomfortable situations... Yeah she's asked me to drink once or twice though. My negative response was responded with some claims that I'm 'not her real friend' then and such, but...yeah.

;o; Awh~ Puu..
Yeah, that sucks.. she shouldn't force you to drink if you don't want to >>; That's bad. *frowns* ;o; Peer pressure ;_______;..

 

[doesn't matter]

It's cause she obviously has some issues.

And BTW, do you reckon that she's gonna reply?

 

[Persona]

;_; Awh~ Thanks!!! *huggles tightly*


That's the point. I NEVER said she was ugly. I have no idea what the heck she's talking about!
o_o She told herself she was ugly, and then I told her that she wasn't! I don't understand why she's saying the opposite!!

She likes to think badly of herself? If so, then that's a big problem. Especially when she thinks others have said bad things to her, but it isn't true. That's where it gets worse.

 

[Kura]

It's cause she obviously has some issues.

And BTW, do you reckon that she's gonna reply?

I really don't care either way, anymore. I don't want to get dragged down anymore. I've given too much of myself to her, and she either ignores it, or gets angry because of it.

She's not a friend, she's someone who's taking advantage of me.

 

[Beatrice]

;o; Awh~ Puu..
Yeah, that sucks.. she shouldn't force you to drink if you don't want to >>; That's bad. *frowns* ;o; Peer pressure ;_______;..

Meh, our friendship will slowly dissolve eventually. It's too sad to confront her about it, because she probably would get emotional about it, so it's best to say I'm occupied when she invites me out and stuff. It works.

 

[Karasuma]

That's the point. I NEVER said she was ugly. I have no idea what the heck she's talking about!
o_o She told herself she was ugly, and then I told her that she wasn't! I don't understand why she's saying the opposite!!

She may have read the post wrong or she's just having a bad day. I'm sure that by tomorrow the conversation would be nothing but the past and then she'll forgive you for her mad attitude. Still...this is a personal problem so I can't tell you what to do.

 

[doesn't matter]

@ Kura: Well whatever happens, good luck with it.

@ Riza: do you want your freindship to dissolve though? It's always sad to lose someone.

 

[Kura]

She may have read the post wrong or she's just having a bad day. I'm sure that by tomorrow the conversation would be nothing but the past and then she'll forgive you for her mad attitude. Still...this is a personal problem so I can't tell you what to do.

Like I said, right now I don't think I'd care either way. I've thought about it. And I've realised that I don't need the stress anymore. I can find someone else to occupy my time with. There are lots of people who'd be my friend out there~ Ones who'd be willing to care back >>;

 

[Beatrice]

@ Kura: Well whatever happens, good luck with it.

@ Riza: do you want your freindship to dissolve though? It's always sad to lose someone.

Yeah, I do, I don't like the way it's going. She's a great friend though, it's just I don't want to get involved in the things she might do later on. It's hard, but it's for the best...I guess.

 

[doesn't matter]

Well have you tried to help her a bit, get her some help or something.

Cause that could turn out for the best too ... I guess.

 

[Kura]

@ Kura: Well whatever happens, good luck with it.

@ Riza: do you want your freindship to dissolve though? It's always sad to lose someone.

Thanks~

It should depend, Riza~ Would she choose her booze over your friendship? If so then you're deserving of better.
I know it hurts to lose a friend, though.. --;;~

 

[Karasuma]

Like I said, right now I don't think I'd care either way. I've thought about it. And I've realised that I don't need the stress anymore. I can find someone else to occupy my time with. There are lots of people who'd be my friend out there~ Ones who'd be willing to care back >>;

Indeed, there is no need to stress over someone who just wants to make the other person angry. That happen to an internet friend I have, she was sad because her friend shouted her and cursed at her. I wonder how she's doing because she hasn't been online for a couple of days now.

 

[Kura]

Indeed, there is no need to stress over someone who just wants to make the other person angry. That happen to an internet friend I have, she was sad because her friend shouted her and cursed at her. I wonder how she's doing because she hasn't been online for a couple of days now.

Some online friends can be horrible. Just because you're talking with another person through text, doesn't mean you can still hurt them. *frowns*

 

[Beatrice]

She's basically the stereotypical California blonde. She'll just say 'Nothing will happen, seriously, don't worry about it." And quickly change the subject with a preppy smile and whatnot. She's pretty loyal and stuff, and I'm sure she loves me and all but...I just don't know what to do because she's definately changed over the past years. She knows I hate her drinking but she invites me anyway. It's so confusing @_@ Just...letting it go is easier than confrontation or arguing.

 

[Kura]

She's basically the stereotypical California blonde. She'll just say 'Nothing will happen, seriously, don't worry about it." And quickly change the subject with a preppy smile and whatnot. She's pretty loyal and stuff, and I'm sure she loves me and all but...I just don't know what to do because she's definately changed over the past years. She knows I hate her drinking but she invites me anyway. It's so confusing @_@ Just...letting it go is easier than confrontation or arguing.

Yeah, I agree with that~ I'd probably let it go, too~
._. It's her life, and even though you don't like the fact that she's drinking, you can't really stop that..
._. Oh well~ I guess you can just refuse her when she asks and stuff~
X3 Maybe you can tell her that the doctor said you cant drink alchohol because it gives you really bad digestion problems or something~
Or like.. liver problems and it makes you sick for days~

X3 *shrugs*~

 

[doesn't matter]

Well it's your friend ... so what you do is up to you.

And I'm not trying to make you feel guilty at all, but she is your friend.

... but if she's changed heaps, then maybe you should just let her go.

I know that if I was in your situation, I would've confronted her about it or tried something drastic.

But then again, I'm kinda impatient.

Some online friends can be horrible. Just because you're talking with another person through text, doesn't mean you can still hurt them. *frowns*

Yeah I had to learn too.

 

[Persona]

Some online friends can be horrible. Just because you're talking with another person through text, doesn't mean you can still hurt them. *frowns*

I don't get hurt online. It just pisses me off of how people can act in a way that makes someone frustrated of them, and can't do much about it. Two wrongs don't make a right, but fighting back sure words. Even better is ignoring the person. Being kind, and trying to be friendly with them hasn't worked, and that's not an option anymore. Pick one, Kura. =\

 

[Karasuma]

Some online friends can be horrible. Just because you're talking with another person through text, doesn't mean you can still hurt them. *frowns*

Some people can take it very seriously, they just have to understand the ways of the internet life...it has its fun times, but it also has a lot of drama.

@ Riza: Are you saying that blondes only think about having fun? A good tip would be not to let her drink too much~