You...yo-yo-I have my eye on you.

Homura Akemi

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    There's always someone with some type of aura that just screams out "stay away". Whether it be as obvious as a bully, or the handsome guy with a dark past, there's just someone who rubs you the wrong way. What do you do in these situations? Have you ever had one of these? Are you someone quick to noticing people, or are you more oblivious?
     
    My mind is usually too preoccupied to notice people who I'm not actively engaging with, but when I do, I ignore any sort of "aura" or feeling. Someone has to give me a reason to dislike them.

    I wouldn't like anyone to assume anything about me, so why should I assume anything about them, you know?
     
    I get this when I'm walking down the street on my own. Especially when it's at night or when it's starting to get dark. Usually people who have hoods on, seem to be staring at me, or are wearing really dark clothing tend to make me keep my eye on them. Or if they seem to be following me, just hanging around in a corner...anything like that freaks me out and I definitely keep an eye on them incase they try anything.

    It's not nice to judge people based on their appearance but I tend to do that. >_< Though, most of the time if someone's behaviour is weird or abnormal I watch them carefully. It may seem like an overreaction but it's better to be safe than sorry!
     
    I don't usually talk to people until I get a feel for them by being around them long enough. I make friends very, very slowly because of that (but once I start talking to them, it actually doesn't take very long to develop a friendship with them). So if I get a sense of stay away, I won't make any contact with them.
     
    Just like going into a public swimming pool imo. Test the water in the shallow end. Is it nice and warm? Good. Move in deeper. Is the smell of urine present? It's okay you're only half covered in it, just get out of the pool.

    That metaphor is pretty much how I deal with people, heh. I do get vibes but I will generally take a fair bit of time before setting any of my judgements about someone in stone! And even my stone judgements are malleable, really!
     
    Materialistic and ego-maniac people I stay away from as best I can. I hate to judge people although they're usually obvious in their nature.
     
    Usually I tend to keep my distance from a lot of people until they start talking to me or I learn I have something in common with them. Then I try to converse with them a bit and if it seems forced, I'll stop talking to them, and if it doesn't I'll obviously continue. This method's worked well for me so far.
     
    I never really notice such kind of people anywhere, for me everybody pretty much is cool an-
    wait
    if I don't see any of such people
    ...
    wouldn't that mean that I am that kind of people?!
    D:
     
    People who are narcissistic and have a ginormous ego are people I cannot stand. Sure I'll be able to deal with you talking about yourself and your life for a while, then I'll start becoming slightly annoyed because conversations that way are one-sided. Similarly, individuals with a set-in-stone mentality where they always think they're right and they disregard any other opinion other than their own or people who share the same mindset. Additionally, materialistic people who are too indulged in consumerism get on my nerves as well; their constant, "I need to have this because it's the trend and (obnoxiously) expensive" is rather punch-in-the-face worthy.
     
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