I wasn't heartless but by no means did I sugarcoat it.
There's no sense in telling someone something untrue when they're headed off to get slapped across the face.
You can call it absolute crap all you like but Signomi views it that way plain and simple and she has expressed a specific desire to, as of right now, never speak to Nica again. If Nica were to show up on her new forum that she joined specifically to get away from this group she would have received retaliation from such actions that would've hurt her immensely more than I did with my blunt approach to things.
It's not as though I enjoyed being so blunt with her it was simply the only way to get her to realize without hurting her further, that she needed to respect the wall.