It's not competition. >.> I'm trying to show you this because if you don't find out you'll never understand Spanish because you'll always think that's right. What you're doing now is saying everything I'm saying, basically...
And what reason do you have for not wanting to know what a fluent Spanish speaker has to say on the subject? If you're not afraid of being proven wrong, wouldn't getting closure on the matter be the best thing for you? If you look for proof and find it, or speak to someone and find out, you're right and I'll stop talking. If you talk to a Spanish speaker and are proven wrong, you learn a lesson and accept it, and I stop talking. Obviously what I'm saying seems to be making you unhappy, so you win either way. >.>