I'm beginning to doubt that you carefully read the blog, or even the blog before it (it clearly said it was part 2, after all). That's not the main reason for his anger. There's nothing wrong with having sex, but doing it while your children obviously need you? There's a reality check needed somewhere in that. And yes, I understand that there are people with a lot worse problems than a dysfunctional relationship, but by no means does that mean he should have to hold in what he's feeling. If other people don't want to complain about it? Fine, their choice. Talking about your problems is nothing to be ashamed of, but actually a trait to be looked up upon (in my opinion, anyway). Like I said before, he's merely using the blog for it's intended purpose. That is hardly "making it bigger deal than it is" (and I don't know about you, but I view family problems as a very big deal).