A "Cynical" Debate: Should Housewives Be Paid For Their Work?

Simply put, no. Here are some of the following reasons as to why I don't believe women/men should be paid for being a home mom or dad.

- Taxes: While each country has a variance as to how this works, there are various allowances to not be as taxed as a regular working family. This not only cuts down on costs, but also at times encourages it (maternity leave). Of course there are the different cases, such as welfare too.

- Choice: One chooses to become a housewife/husband knowingly, knowing that it is to take care of the children, and general house upkeep which is only of interest to that household, and not to the government, or business, or anyone else. It would however make sense if the working member of the family paid that house mom/dad, but it would be unnecessary as the house would be under one income anyway.
 
The idea of housewives/husbands being paid is quite ridiculous. They are not forced in any way to do their job. They knew what they would have to do do upon having the children and etc. If they get paid, then by that logic, basically everyone should get paid.

Students would get paid, I mean they do homework and classwork and they have a ton of other responsibilities as well. If housewives/husbands get paid then students should too (:
 
Absolutely not.
Get paid for taking care of your children? Come on. Families already get dependant tax cuts, get money from that. Hell, I clean my room, I do dishes, I mop and sweep. I don't need to get paid for keeping my house clean. Call me sexist here, but if the husband is making all the bread, paying for food and mortgage, the least the wife could do if they don't want to FIND A JOB is clean the place up. Women can find jobs these days. If this was the 50's where Homemaker was pretty much considered a job option for a wife, maybe. In today's world though, you can't just be a housewife. Go get a job and stop making sandwiches. Don't let the man do all the money making. If that's so, then you better cook, clean, raise children and make sandwiches for having the ability to live there if you're going to do anything at all.
 
Hm, many of you believe all a housewive does is chores (or no chores) and taking their husband's money. Well, that's not all they do. Vendak already mentions that they also raise the children and that it's not an easy task. Also, I mentioned how a lot of housewives does the family finances, which should be simple thing to do but many people mess that up like California.

Again, I still think housewives shouldn't be paid do to me believing the choice of being a housewive is more a personal and not professional choice, but I also believe they are way unappreciated.
 
Thanks for all your contributions, its great to see such a blossoming argument and your points have all been very relavent.

The running of a home, far from being just simple chores, has been and remains one of the bedrocks of a functional society. Without the work of a homekeeper, other family members would not be free to go to work and invest in a career for themselves. This would harm the family structure and the economy. The importance of this role means that the home labourer is entitled to some compensation. If the work had to be provided at market rates the cost would run to hundreds of billions of pounds or dollars a year.

Society should always try to reward its citizens for vital work in some degree at least. Under a capitalist system the value of goods and services is recognised in financial terms, so a wage would recognise the important contribution of homemakers. As well as being important, housework is physically taxing, time consuming and in balancing the needs of a household, a relatively specialised task. These features are all valued highly by the marketplace, and it is a pure accident of history that homekeepers have not been included in this.

No-one knows for sure what they are signing up for upon entering a marriage or relationship. The circumstances of a family can change dramatically over time so one member may end up doing work they never expected. If so, then their work may be voluntary in the sense they are not physically coerced, but it is not a situation they previously gave any consent to. If business partners sign a contract which circumstance means is no longer representative of the work they do, then the partners should have a right to re-negotiate. It is the same with a partner in a relationship.

Firstly, physical coercion is still regrettably common in the home, and rarely reported when it exists. Secondly there are more subtle forms of power imbalances between family units. It is estimated that men own over 90% of the property in the world, and they are almost always still the dominant wage earners in a household, both in amount and likelihood of working. This means women in particular can be left in an unequal bargaining position when compared to their partner. This means the voluntariness of domestic agreements can be highly questionable. Even if divorce is possible, it is understandable that the more vulnerable partner may want to avoid it at all costs, for cultural reasons, or to prevent harm to children. So it does not constitute the element of consent the opposition is looking for. As such it is important that we give homekeepers at least the option of recompense.

The improvements in the rights of women all stem from the state 'interfering' in social matters. Pre-nuptial agreements, custody and property sharing upon divorce are all legal measures in family law. Equalising the rights, roles and access to wealth in the household is an important step towards empowering women, and ensuring equal opportunity for future generations by showing that household roles are not defined by gender.

Conservatives are always keen in public on promoting the family and on the advantages of mothers being able to stay at home to bring up young children. This proposal would provide positive encouragement for couples to make the decision that one of them should stay at home to care for their children, as it provides an economic incentive for one of them (typically the woman) to do so. At the same time it ensures that although family income will be the same, the homekeeper retains their own income and so receives proper recognition for their work. This will serve to maintain their status within the relationship, and make it easier for them to return to the workplace in the future if they so choose.

That is some input on my part. I thought I'd go on the pro-incentive side for now at least to balance it up a bit as most people seem to be against the motion.
 
No, because we'd have to pay more taxes. Plus, repeating what Twocows and Amachi said - who exactly is gonna pay you?

It also further cements the sexist ideology that women should stay in the home rather than join the workforce.
 
The running of a home, far from being just simple chores, has been and remains one of the bedrocks of a functional society. Without the work of a homekeeper, other family members would not be free to go to work and invest in a career for themselves. This would harm the family structure and the economy.

This isn't true at all.

Technology for a large part has made housework redundant. This isn't like hundreds of year ago where we needed to buy food daily because we didn't have refridgeration, and couldn't get that easily because we didn't have cars, or didn't have dishwashers, washing machines, dryers and vacuum cleaners to automate cleaning.

Other than maybe childcare, it is incredibly easily to work a full time job and take care of a home. The biggest struggle stay at home parents have to face is boredom and isolation from the adult world.
 
Other than maybe childcare, it is incredibly easily to work a full time job and take care of a home. The biggest struggle stay at home parents have to face is boredom and isolation from the adult world.
Not all stay of home parents are isolated from the adult world. Many have friends and outside activities they can go to. My mom is a stay at home parent and she's able to visit her siblings and one best friend that lived not too far from town.
 
There are people who could work who chose not to work and already get paid for having childrens. It's called the welfare system and there are people who abuse it so badly that the people who do not abuse it [ie people who legit-ly cannot work and are housewives/stay at home moms due to illness or injury] are often lumped in with those people and are 'called' lazy.

There is no standard, especially not in the US, for the average stay at home mom. How things happen in my house aren't the same as yours etc etc. In the workforce, there's a standard you have to make. Who sets that standard? Who makes it and who upholds it? Our social workers are already overbooked but they'd be the ones to make the house calls to EVERYONE to make sure the standard was being held.

Being a stay at home mom is a full time job but it doesn't pay with money.

It pays in emotional wealth.

As far as parents doing things, more and more parents are turning to MMOs believe it or not. My mom, who homeschools my little sister, is also an avid World of Warcraft player with a bunch of other adults her age and older.
 
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