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Honestly, I don't like to assume that one is cutting his/herself just because you see a scar, because you really don't know if it was self inflicted or not, I have a scar on my face and people just assume I cut and brands me as someone who just wants attention. But in reality that's not the case, I usually try to avoid attention in public.
With that said, even if they cut I still wouldn't assume they just did it for attention, this is a fact that I have friends who used to and not once has any of them said or even acted like they wanted people to notice the scars, in fact they usually try to cover it up so that no one needs to know.
I don't approve of people who cut, but I don't condemn them saying you want attention or saying things like "nobody will love someone who cuts" because that's just simply breaking their spirits more and usually it's completely false, but rather I would ask them why they did and if there's anything I can help with, instead of breaking their spirits I try to cheer them up and make them forget about the thought of trying again.
With that said, even if they cut I still wouldn't assume they just did it for attention, this is a fact that I have friends who used to and not once has any of them said or even acted like they wanted people to notice the scars, in fact they usually try to cover it up so that no one needs to know.
I don't approve of people who cut, but I don't condemn them saying you want attention or saying things like "nobody will love someone who cuts" because that's just simply breaking their spirits more and usually it's completely false, but rather I would ask them why they did and if there's anything I can help with, instead of breaking their spirits I try to cheer them up and make them forget about the thought of trying again.