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I have a laptop o.o;;; XD ish a compaq
 
@@.. i have a dilemma (is that how you spell it?) anyways..

neh.. well.. i went to an anime convention with Erica (you know teh mod)
and there was this guy there.. and we met him last time and he was really nice..
so we exchanged emails and things.. and then he wouldn't stop following us..
and he started hitting on us.. (we were with 2 other people)
and he even asked me out (i said no because i only met him for a day and i barely knew him.. and because of his newly appearing attitude)

he even said "people only go to anime conventions to get girlfriends"
and i'm thinking "no.. people go to cons to get anime.." i should have said it..

well.. i gave him my other email (one i dont really go on) so he wouldnt flood my account or stalk me on msn..

he's like 14.. and i don't want to say "stop bothering me" because i dont mind talking or anything.. but he began to think like he only wants a GF and thats it..

how do i say "i dont feel comfortable talking to you, maybe talking at the next con is okay.. but i dont want to be stalked by you"

i dont want to make him mad..
but i dont want my personal space to be invaded..

any help??
 
I'm not gone yet! XD So what's up everyone?
 
Kura~

Just tell him teh truth... If ya dont like being stalked tell him that. Not being understand is weorst than being a heart-breaker~
 
Kura said:
@@.. i have a dilemma (is that how you spell it?) anyways..

neh.. well.. i went to an anime convention with Erica (you know teh mod)
and there was this guy there.. and we met him last time and he was really nice..
so we exchanged emails and things.. and then he wouldn't stop following us..
and he started hitting on us.. (we were with 2 other people)
and he even asked me out (i said no because i only met him for a day and i barely knew him.. and because of his newly appearing attitude)

he even said "people only go to anime conventions to get girlfriends"
and i'm thinking "no.. people go to cons to get anime.." i should have said it..

well.. i gave him my other email (one i dont really go on) so he wouldnt flood my account or stalk me on msn..

he's like 14.. and i don't want to say "stop bothering me" because i dont mind talking or anything.. but he began to think like he only wants a GF and thats it..

how do i say "i dont feel comfortable talking to you, maybe talking at the next con is okay.. but i dont want to be stalked by you"

i dont want to make him mad..
but i dont want my personal space to be invaded..

any help??
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Ah you don't want to hurt any feelings, but you just want to be left alone by him...

If thats the case, all you can really do now is just to ignore him completely or just make him understand to calm down, but you can still be friends ^^.
 
thanks guys..

like.. @@ he's a nice person and stuff..
but he jumped up too fast..
like.. i've known him for one day.. and he seems like a good friend and stuff..
just.. i dont want anything more than that.. and i dont want him to keep trying
im just not interested.. and i dont want someone obsessing over me

:3 thanks for your help guys..
@@.. im just really confused about all this

@@ its all too much at once..
 
Kura said:
thanks guys..

like.. @@ he's a nice person and stuff..
but he jumped up too fast..
like.. i've known him for one day.. and he seems like a good friend and stuff..
just.. i dont want anything more than that.. and i dont want him to keep trying
im just not interested.. and i dont want someone obsessing over me

:3 thanks for your help guys..
@@.. im just really confused about all this

@@ its all too much at once..
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Say I am not ready for the next step.
 
Well, take your time...besides, I am terrible at dating...thats why I dont XD;
 
;--; Goodnight guys, I must go. Farewell, and sweet dreams to you all. xD;; ~origin
 
MegaDitto said:
Say I am not ready for the next step.
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neh already did X33

i said no to him, besides.. my heart already belongs to someone @@
and no.. i dont have a bf..
i've never had a bf..
and i don't really want to date ._.
 
Well if you feel this guy might start to stalk you...then just tell him you aren't ready for a relationship. =\ You don't have to necessarily tell him you're afraid he'll stalk you, but just tell him you went to the anime convention purely for having fun and doing things that have to do with anime. ^^;

If he becomes ignorant and won't listen (as many guys do --;; ) then you may have to get more forceful. You can't let this guy keep thinking you and him are together when you're not, it'll only result in feelings getting hurt.

As dull as it sounds, you can only really just tell him how you feel about this whole ordeal. ^____^ I hope I at least semi-helped you, Kura. XD

~Kelsey
 
I only dated once before, it was literally days after my grad 8 graduation when I was dancing with a girl I went to school with since grade 2 and out of nowhere I was dating her for about 3 weeks.

But unfortunatly, she told me weeks before I moved to where I am now.

Some advise: if you are not ready for it, don't bother trying because you won't know what to do.
 
Kura said:
neh already did X33

i said no to him, besides.. my heart already belongs to someone @@
and no.. i dont have a bf..
i've never had a bf..
and i don't really want to date ._.
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I never had a GF either.Odd.Had you ever kissed.
 
Omg, thats personal....@_@;;; XD
 
Mori Seirei said:
Well if you feel this guy might start to stalk you...then just tell him you aren't ready for a relationship. =\ You don't have to necessarily tell him you're afraid he'll stalk you, but just tell him you went to the anime convention purely for having fun and doing things that have to do with anime. ^^;

If he becomes ignorant and won't listen (as many guys do --;; ) then you may have to get more forceful. You can't let this guy keep thinking you and him are together when you're not, it'll only result in feelings getting hurt.

As dull as it sounds, you can only really just tell him how you feel about this whole ordeal. ^____^ I hope I at least semi-helped you, Kura. XD

~Kelsey
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thank you mori seirei!! @@.. i probably will.. i don't like hurting people.. and that why i avoid situations like this.. so when they happen i get really worried and everything

@@ and no megaditto.. i've never kissed anyone.. and i don't really mind ._...
 
Kura ya can call her Kels XD
 
Eliana said:
Kura ya can call her Kels XD
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ack yes @@.. i didnt notice she signed her name..
*is hyper and tired and feeling stupid*
o3o...

omg.. i watched FMA yesterday and now i'm obsessed!
<3 i love Al!! @@.. i asked Erica (lightning) to translate some stuff (because she knows some jap)
and i pointed to a word and said
me: whats this say?
erica: it says "Al"
me: and this?
erica: it's "Al"
me: *laugh* oh yeah.. @@ what about this last one?
erica: >>.. "Alfanz"
me: ._. *laugh* X33

gah..
 
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