No Mika. Just no. Your argument is invalid on the grounds of the definition of a parasite.
A unborn child isn't a parasite. A parasite is a different organism entirely, which is not even of the same species!
Fetuses are parasites, babies are not.
Fetuses take their nutrition straight from their mothers bodies. When your body is invaded by parasites the same thing happens to your body with the same side effects...nausea/excessive hunger/lethargy etc.
When a baby takes nutrition they do so from the breast at intervals or from a bottle. NOT from the body at all times.
This so called "Violinist Experiment" does not strengthen your argument, it is a strawman logical fallacy that equates it to something the woman did not sign herself up for.
Pregnancy is not opt-out. It's Opt-in. When you have sex, you accept the consequence of potentially getting pregnant, especially if you do not take the proper contraceptive steps. It is the woman's responsibility to ensure she does not become pregnant if she does not wish to be pregnant or have a child.
Strawman does not like your abuse. :< Poor Strawman.
A strawman would imply that this is what we present pregnancy as which is false. The violinist is a fully formed human being. A fetus is not. I posted the Violinist experiment to further ask that, fully formed human or not, does a woman have a choice over her own body? Does it make a difference?
1) It's not an Opt-In unless you have sex for the explicit purpose of having babies. You are assuming people only have sex to have babies or with the intention of becoming pregnant. Even with preventative birth control measures (several of them!) pregnancy can still happen.
I think what I dislike the most about your statement is your impication that all sex is opt'd into. Should a woman who is raped by her boyfriend or a teenager who is raped by her uncle (assuming both rapes end up in pregnancy) be forced to carry the fetus to term? That's more of a slippery slope than anything else.
'You're walking in a bad part of town? Well you're just ASKING to get mugged'
It's blatant victim blaming.
'You knew getting raped might get you pregnant. You opt'd into it. Therefore you should have to carry to term'
:| It's only
ONLY Opt In if the
woman is trying to get Pregnant.
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Edit: I have a question for you all or rather gothatfunk of youtube
(Yes I'm blatantly swiping a good discussion question SO SUE ME) has a question for you all!
'If a mother doesn't want to carry a baby to term and provided we had the necessary technology to make it happen, would you be willing to carry and give birth to that baby instead?'