Dont you hate it when people change?

Well, sometimes... Like my friend, who recently got all boy crazy and barely speaks to me anymore. And she's been acting odd, and wearing weird clothes...

But change is inevitable, I can't do anything but accept it. ^^
 
Changing is inevitable, but i think as long as they change for the better and don't become jerks then well its ok but thats my opinion...
 
Change is inevitable, except from a vending machine. But sometimes people change for neither better nor worse.
 
If they were previously ugly, and they became outrageously attractive, then change is good.

Change can be good if they person changed in a positive way. Otherwise, it just sucks.
 
It depends whether they change for the good or for the bad. :/

Though my experience dictates that all change in people = bad, not excluding myself.
 
I've seen a lot of positive changes in people in general lately. Not all, but some.
 
Honestly, that depends on the person and how they were before and how they are after. :D

I hate my girl who's all into her boytoy... They were great when separated, but now they're kissy kissy and annoying when together. xD

Then, there are people you wish would change because they honestly suck.... Same bad behavior, different situation/people.
 
Generally, the way people are to me, I'd be answering no, I don't hate it when people change.

However, recently everybody's changing for the worse.

It'd be brilliant if people I knew changed to be nicer people, but sadly, that's not happening.

Like people who get together as a couple. They're extremely annoying. Well, generally not, but the ones that split up and make up again every 5 minutes are really annoying.
 
It's good when people change for the better, that's obvious. But to be honest, I don't really like change that much. But there is nothing anybody can do about it I'm afraid, you move with the times of get left behind :(
All my friends are changing, for the worse. They're all getting more distant and are getting more serious (which ok, I understand as were growing up but it doesn't mean you can still have a laugh) sometimes when I think about it, I feel kinda alone because of how everyone but me is changing.
 
No. More often than not, I see people change for the better. In fact, I can't even think of one person I know who has changed in a negative way (though I'm sure they're out there). Change, for the most part, is a wonderful thing, and it means that people are growing rather than stagnating or, in several cases I've seen, wallowing in a hole they dug for themselves. When people like that don't change, I have to let them go if they become too burdensome (I try not to, though, until there's no more I can do).

Old friends I've reunited with after years have changed, but though I'm not as close to them anymore, they're still the same people, and we're still good friends. When you pass from the end of middle school, through high school, and on into young adulthood, what 'changing' really means is discovering who you are after spending all that time trying to find it and experimenting. You may find yourself or others to be radically different over time, but the stuff that you're really made of is still there. If that 'stuff' isn't what held a friendship back in the day, it may well fall through, but it's not the end of the world. There's billions of people out there, so there's always people you can find a real friendship in :3
 
Well, is the change bad?

Change is natural to humans, we do it all the time. Its normal, no way of stopping it. I personally don't hate change, unless it effects the person drastically and makes them become evil-mc-evil.
 
Yes, a lot of the time. Most people become rather ignorant, one-sided and careless after a period of time. Not all, but some.
 
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