Heartbreak

Have you ever been heartbroken or have you ever broken someone's heart?

  • Yes, I've been heartbroken but I haven't broken anybody's heart

    Votes: 9 26.5%

  • Yes, I've broken somebody's heart but have never been heartbroken

    Votes: 5 14.7%

  • Yes, I've been heartbroken and have broken someone else's heart

    Votes: 10 29.4%

  • No, none of that has ever happened to me

    Votes: 10 29.4%
  • Total voters
    34

CHaRiSMa

Watching Celty chase bad guys
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    Have you ever been heartbroken or have you ever broken someone's heart? Nothing of that happened to me and I also wish it never will.
     
    Both. But now my love life is calm, I mean, nonexistant, so now I'm relaxed xD
     
    Yeah, I have been heartbroken really bad and it just felt so horrible. The night I was heartbroken I couldn't be happy and I wanted to cry. My friend hugged me and stuff which helped but luckily I'm over it now.

    I think I have broken someone's heart too and I felt a bit bad. I shouldn't have said what I said.
     
    I have a system. I dont ask people out for fear thatthey might turn me down. I wait for the to ask me out. Then I dont get broken up with, I beat him to it, and break upwith him. So I've never gotten my heart broken cause I'm just that smart.

    I know, I know that makes me sound like a bad person, but its considered smart in the school that I go to.
     
    Um, neither, really. I have broken up with someone before only because they turned out to be total jerks and they didn't really like me anyway, so I couldn't have broken their hearts. And I've turned some people down before but as far as I know they weren't completely heart broken. XD;

    As for me being heart broken, that has yet to happen. I've been hurt but never really torn up over it. I have better things to do than get all torn up over a BOY. D;
     
    I haven't.
    Though, I've broken a mirror with a heart reflecting into it..yeps.
     
    Nope. Nada. Not really.

    Unless I did it unconciously. xDD Or maybe when some guy confessed to me in front of like, EVERYONE, and I was like, 'Oh my god, this guy is a twit' and I was like, "EW!"

    ... Yeah I probably broke his teeny puppy love heart, but I can't confirm that, so yeah. Probably not. xDD
     
    I haven't had my heart broken yet and I'm not looking forward to the day that I do. However, I have broken a guy's heart before and he cried in front of me too. If felt really bad, but it had to be done. =/
     
    Ironically, I am currently listening to a song that includes the lyrics "Heartbreak, baby, is half the fun . . .".

    In any case, my heart has not been broken. And, as far as I am aware, I have not broken another heart either.
     
    Neither and probably never will in the future, i'm just not that kind of person.
     
    Hm...


    I guess that I belong to the first type, but not exactly (it's just that out of the 4 choices, that's the closest.) Though I've been ditched, I honestly think that it works out for the better when I think back about it... Things were going too fast and it is not overly catastrophic if things come to a cool before things go out of hand. XD; Plus, I learned a lot from that... felt miserable, but only for exactly 5 days, and that's very short compare to other "heartache" experience from stories... Technically a heartache, but relatively compare to others, not really? XD;

    As for the other part, I *hope* that I didn't break anyone's heart? I didn't really couple up with anyone else, so I shouldn't be capable of breaking anyone's heart (nor have I rejected anyone, really), but who knows... Maybe I broke someone's heart unintentionally o.O;;;
     
    Oh, how cute that I'd post immediately after my Martian friend. ♥ I suppose the second option would describe me.

    I haven't had the best luck with relationships, and it's come to the point where I've decided to forego them indefinitely. Honestly, I'm much too free-spirited to deal with the dependancies that come with love. o_o; I like being able to do things my way, to act on my beliefs, and to not really have to restrain them arbitrarily. Besides, being single means I can always devote my time and resources to more awesome stuff like computers, video games, and other geeky stuff. 8D
     
    Nope, this has not happened to me and I hope it never happens to me. Besides, I don't think it'll ever happen, I'm not that type of person either.
     
    Oh, how un-cute that my Venusian friend had decided to post right after me. </3

    (XD)

    Either way, back to the topic at hand. I'm not surprised that there are so many people for the 4th choice. Afterall, many people in this forum are still young, and may not start relationships early. However, I'm more surprised that so many people are so sure that they'll always remain #4 that they'll never break someone's heart and will never be broken... especially never breaking someone's heart. I mean, the most random guy/girl can suddenly pop up and express the love, which you may reject because you are just not interested... and by doing that, you've broken someone's heart already o_O;

    Really, it's pretty easy to do either one, and if not both of those... it's just so very difficult to start only one relationship, never get asked again, and this one relationship last to marriage and beyond~
     
    Option 3 for me~

    I've done some pretty stupid things in the past that I really regret now. Even though I found them to be too confining at times, I always liked being in relationships, not so much anymore though. When you find that you can never really live up to set expectations that people have of you, I guess it's a pretty good indication that those two people aren't really fit for one another. It's a pretty rare thing to find someone you never tire of and who you never see faults in and vice versa. Though there is someone I have a pretty big crush on, we almost never talk. I doubt anything would ever come of that. I don't want to be definite and say that I'd never want to be in a relationship again or I'd never give up on someone, after all, new experiences can vastly change a person's point of view over night. I'd just rather see where life takes me, which is generally how I've been viewing day to day life lately.
     
    yea,see I took my hands,and just forced it through-

    no,jk lol

    but yea.both.I don't wanna bring back painful memos,so I'm not discussing...:P
     
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