hey ladies (or guys), question~

[BeachBoy]

Since I re-joined public school, the predator 'n' prey nature (or however you define it) of love has taken root, obviously.

I asked a girl I was interested in's best friend to find out if she's available... well, she isn't, she interested in someone else apparently, not exactly taken though.

Keep fighting / sticking around to sway her? or kinda back off and let her handle her own agenda? Unfortunately, the term "there's other fish in the sea" is null due to ... er, my kind of marlin? |D (girls are like me and graphic hunting?) Not much else of my kind of fish lurk the nearest waters? (classes) XD

Ideas / thoughts on this sitchu? :O

(and yes kelz, she's a brunette XD) They usually are. :x

My sis says I should "stay 'n' sway" ~

 

[LethalTexture]

Get to know her, get in her good books. And fi you this sucessfully, ask her if she would be interested sooner rather than later, or you'll deeply regret it later. Take this from experience.

 

[wakachamo]

what have you got to lose? Go for it and keep trying.

 

[Zet]

don't listen to your sis, when was the last time she had several guys after her?

 

[BeachBoy]

Actually, my sis already has about 7 juniors and seniors drooling over her, so... XD

Yeah.

Great point goes to WakaTaco.

And Horizon, I waited on someone similar for 6 years. That's already one of my biggest regrets. So good point, btw.

 

[Dukey]

I reckon you should maybe find out how into him she is.
Then make your move. Unless she's gonna like kill herself if she doesn't get this guy.
Then you have a good chance :P
I mean who wouldn't wanna be Beachy GF?

The real question is, would you tell her about PC? o.O

 

[Becky_x]

I say stick around.

Friendship is the best foundation for a relationship so do the usual, get to know her, be her friend, let her see how great you are and then go from there.

And she's not taken like you said so there's still a chance for you, if she's only interested in someone (as in, they might not feel the same or they'd be dating already) then her options are still open to other people aswell.

Plus, if she finds out you liked her and then you just gave up, you'd probably lose points for the future if you tried again one day because she'd think you can't have liked her that much to just give up.

Sorry if that's a bit long and didn't make much sense xD

 

[Melody]

Exactly as Becky_x has mentioned. A friendship makes a sturdy foundation on which to start a relationship of deeper proportions. And as an added bonus, you get to know her sooner, and can spot any 'red flags' (Red flags being qualities which signal deep incompatibilities)

 

[BeachBoy]

Bechy_x, you're too awesome. <3

 

[micerunningonsundays]

Don't have regrets Orbi.

 

[Percy Thrillington]

handle her own agenda?

I think you'll see what you need to do when Paris Hilton springs to mind.

 

[Unforgettable]

Stay and get to know her. Get to know other girls too, but you know... just kinda let it be known your interested, and she may go after you~ ;3