"If you really wanted to know me...you should know this."

Miss Doronjo

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    ...When I meet certain people, they would say that I won't truly understand them, unless I've actually spend some time to try to get to know them when we actually start communicating with one another.

    So, what would you say is one thing that you want people to know about you, to get to fully "understand" on who you are, before they judge you?

    For myself? Well, I just wish more people would understand that I'm just one who likes to have a good time in my life, without any worries. Is that a realistic dream? I don't even know. Also, I'm pretty much modest. Modest about everything I do or say, and all the while, I just lose a bit of confidence each time I would attempt to do something. ...But that's just me.
     
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    I'd like them to accept the fact that I'm a naturally shy person who will only make complex discussions with really close friends. I am friendly, but I'm incredibly quiet, people seem to find that creepy. If you get to know me then you'll realize that I'm a loyal and caring person.
     
    I'd like people to know that I am human, and that I can't always be the friend you want me to be. I want you to know that I can't live up to everyone's expectations, and that I certainly won't be able to be perfect. However, I would always be there for you, and help you should you ever need me. In return for that I ask your friendship and loyalty too. That is all.

    Sincerely
    Aiden
     
    I would want people to know that I love socializing with people, but I'm too shy to do it most of the time. I'm a social person trapped in a shy person's body, so don't take the fact that I'm not too talkative as a reason to stop talking to me, because chances are I enjoy your company.
     
    Toujours said:
    I would want people to know that I love socializing with people, but I'm too shy to do it most of the time. I'm a social person trapped in a shy person's body, so don't take the fact that I'm not too talkative as a reason to stop talking to me, because chances are I enjoy your company.
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    You're the newest person on my list of people I need to hug before I die. I do the same thing, and I would probably repeat what you just said.
     
    People need to know that the reason I'm so loud with friends and silent around others is because they don't even attempt to talk to me, so I tend not to talk to them. I would talk to them, but they need to talk to me first cause I'm awkward and not a good conversation starter. Bahaha.

    Edit: Oh dang I like this font. XD
     
    I suppose I would tell them that I'm reserved, in the sense that it takes a while for me to become comfortable with someone. I only let part of my personality show when I meet someone new, and then after I grow comfortable with them enough that I can feel I can be myself, then I'm usually what I'm like when I'm home or around people I've known for a long time. It takes a while for me to become comfortable with someone, though, and I don't think people really like having to wait for me to be myself around them.
     
    I want them to first know that I'm not to be trifled with, even though I may seem weak and gentle at first glance but they shouldn't push me around and act cocky towards me for I totally dislike people who are so full of themselves. I also want them to beware that if they're xenophobic or have a fear of being near abnormal weird people like me, they shouldn't try to change me or what-they-can-try.

    Another thing, even though I look and/or sound like a certain gender , it doesn't mean I'm a homosexual. Like I said, I'm out of my mind sometimes and I have a tendency to shift into various personalities including those of the opposite genders. And they should know how to communicate properly to a person who has been sucked into depression numerous times and has cut themselves.

    Well the bottomline is that if they wanna get to know me better, just talk. I'm a chatty person usually and won't hesitate to unintentionally bore you with a long factual speech or irritate you with smilies. XD
     
    I want them to know me before they judge me. I want them to know what I experienced and why I act the way I do, I want them to see what I went through and why I'm like I am right now. I want them to see when I'm happy, mad, sad, and depressed before they even say a thing about me.
     
    People need to know that though I seem shy, I do become loud and fun to be with when you get to know me.
     
    One thing I wish people would understand is that if I'm asked to hang out or do something with someone and I say no, it doesn't mean I don't like you. It usually means I'm uncomfortable with the activity, or just uncomfortable with socializing. I'm a very shy person irl and just prefer to only get out at my own leisure. So it's not that I hate you...I just wouldn't know how to act or what to do.
     
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