I'm sorry but you smell so we are breaking up

I can't be with a girl who smokes. I'm sorry, but its disgusting and unattractive to me. I would say that is the biggest deal-breaker for me, in addition to cheating and dishonesty.
 
Cheating, and dishonesty are obvious ones, so I'm not gonna include 'em.

- Bad hygiene (& if he doesn't clean his shoes he can gtfo)
- Ignorance
- Hypocrisy
- Hipster
 
wait, wait, wait........

is this a common dealbreaker...?

;______________;

I was about to take our bromance to the next level but then I realised you were a hipster. It was such a sad day for me, mate.

It's okay though. You just need to cure yourself by listening to the top 10 songs in the charts every day for a year, you'll make it through this. I know you will.
 
I didn't initiate most of my break ups actually, haha. I broke up with a guy last August because we just didn't have good chemistry. Uhhh other things I'd dump someone for...being an ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥, basically. That's a bit broad, but oh well. I probably wouldn't want to be with someone who is outgoing with their opposing views of things I feel strongly about, like women's rights, gay rights, etc.
 
A list to answer the OP's question. Deal-breakers listed are for problems that arise during a relationship, and deal-breakers that stop one from happening right off the bat.

  1. Passive-Aggression
  2. Lying
  3. Cheating
  4. Disrespect
  5. Mental Illness
  6. Mind Games
  7. Other Games
  8. Feminism
  9. Prejudice
  10. Non-Virginal
  11. Religious
  12. Lack of Intelligence
  13. Hygiene Problems; Level Yellow (eating stinky foods; not bathing as often as recommended; deodorant absent)
  14. Hygiene Problems; Level Red (STDs; yellow teeth; smoking/drugs; generally slattern behaviour)
  15. Tattoos
  16. Excessive Metal (piercings)
  17. Indecisiveness ("I want kids!", "I don't want kids!")
  18. Above-average alcohol consumption
  19. Emotional Instability
 
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Gonna go with what others have said, and say cheating. I'm a firm believer in that if they do it once, they have the potential to do it again so that's a definite deal breaker. Also, learning from my first, and thus far only, relationship it's safe to say that having no mutual interests would be a major turn off. My ex had no interests and/or hobbies whatsoever besides doing his math homework, and I had no idea what to do with him. Other things would include, but not limited to: disrespect, tattoos, lecherous, etc.
 
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