First off, IV and EV training are natural game mechanics that have been openly recognized by Nintendo. I'm a bit too lazy to draw up proof for the former, but for the latter, there are lots of places and items within the games themselves that are specifically geared to those ends. I don't think banning the discussion of a natural game mechanic will be well-received around here.
As for infractions, if you believe you've received one unfairly, try talking reasonably with the moderator that gave it to you. If the warning/infraction was issued for something minor, or there was a misunderstanding, they might lift it if you're reasonable about the whole thing.
If you feel that there is a genuine problem afterwards, take it up with a super mod or another senior member of the staff. As with before, using a reasonable and neutral tone gets you really far, really fast.
That's really all I've got to say on the matter. Hopefully your problems will be resolved soon.
~Cosmic Fury