Kids or no kids?

I really don't want any... as much as I love them. :/ Maybe I'll adopt or something. Who knows though. :x
 
I honestly would love to have a baby of my own someday. <3
Hopefully a baby girl.. but if it's a little boy I'd still love him all the same. ^//^
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>_< No. I hate children with a passion. Things in my past have also made me not want to have any. My fiance knows & respects it. Besides, taking care of him is like taking care of 3 kids as it is! XD
 
Yes... though I question whether I will have children, even if I do manage to find someone I love to that degree.

I do want to have children though. Maybe in half a dozen years that is.
 
Yes, I want kids. I think it'll be more fun with kids than being old and miserable.
I think I want one boy and one girl :D
 
Heeellllzz to the no. .___.;
I just can't stand kids . . . and the thought of raising one and spending a lot of time with it is even harder to take. -___-;

-Too selfish to want to provide for someone else- :<

But for the record, I prefer girls~
 
Nope. I have a million other things I want to do and dedicate my life to, including some local environmental work with the wetlands.

Kids take up a lot of time, money, and energy, which would prevent me from doing a lot of the other things I have planned. Not to mention, I don't like them and wouldn't be a very good parent.

I don't see how it's "selfish" though, as I've sometimes heard people say. Neither the human race nor my family line is in any danger of dying out, so I'm in no way obligated to procreate. Just because I don't want to focus on kids doesn't mean I just want to focus on myself and never share or be nice to anyone or anything. I can't even see the logic behind that view. o.O
 
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I don't really think about having kids but now this thread has made me think. Currently the answer is no. Not because I hate kids, I adore kids they're really cute. I'm pretty good with kids too apparently to my friends (with younger siblings) parents from past and present. But I wouldn't want all the responsibility of kids. Maybe when I grow up my opinion will change but for now I'm going to say no. No kids for me.
 
I can't say yes and I can't say no.
Seeing as how I'm an only child, I'd kind of hate for this part of the family to "end" with me, and having a child would help keep things going, so to speak. I have a lot of cousins though, so I wouldn't be the end-all-be-all.
Honestly though, at this point, the idea of pregnancy and childbirth scares me, though I think that happens with everybody. A friend of mine who works as a doula just recently had a baby girl, and even though she's surrounded by people who were/are pregnant, she didn't realize how different it was when she was the one that was pregnant. I can't let something silly like that keep me from having children, though.

So I guess I'm kind of indifferent. If my spouse wants children, I'm okay with one or two. If my spouse doesn't, then I'm okay not having kids. This'll probably change once I'm older though, right now I'm just worried about getting through college. >_>
 
I'm not sure if I ever want kids, at this point. Kids are nice but I don't know if I'd make a really good parent. ._.;

It's pretty much always been my stance that I'll decide if I'll have kids when I'm in a position to make that decision (ideally in a stable relationship with the means to raise a child). As of now, I'm not, and that's 100% okay with me.
 
1 girl, 1 boy
2 twin boys
2 twin girls

No matter what, I would only want 2. At least right now that's all I want.
 
As my parents' only child, I'd like to pass on our family's legacy. I'm not too worried about genders as of this point. Either adoption or having a child of my own blood is fine, though I'd very much like to have at least one that carries my genes. Raising kids won't be a fun experience for me at all, but I think it'll be worth it in the end to see them grow up.
 
Sure, I'd like to have kids one day. I'd like a boy and a girl, two kids would be my limit though.
 
I definitely want kids someday, and I'm definitely going to be adopting. I don't feel the need to produce my own children when there are already plenty of them out there already existing that require a home. I'd prefer two kids, one boy and one girl, or two girls. Although I'd probably go for the former.
I'm good with kids, and I think I'd make a good parent, once I'm in a financially stable situation.
 
i think i'd want 2. no more than 3
an older girl and a younger boy would be ideal :D
i might consider adopting one?
 
Zero is my magic number of children. Negative one, if I can get away with it.

I'd like to have one dog, one cat and three rats as pets, though.
 
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