Love--- does it hurt or not?

[Ayoumi Hamasakie]

Many people today say that love makes them happy, but some of them cry a lot because of it. True, having a love (boyfriend/girlfriend) maybe inspirational, but there are disadvantages. So, what can you say?

(Sorry for my bad english)

 

[Guillermo]

It can be good, and it can be bad. I mean, the benefits are having someone you feel like you can talk to, and trust with all your heart. But then BAM! What if he/she is cheating on you? How do you feel then? Crushed, that is how.

There is someone for everyone, you just have too find that person.

 

[Weatherman Kiyoshi]

Love is great, however, it can turn sour for the worst.

When you love someone, it's like having a best friend, only they won't go away to do something else, etc.

they'll stick with you. It's the best kind of feeling.

However, if something happens to break that apart, (cheating, car accident, etc.) you're left heart broken. and you feel sad.

Love is great, but it also sucks. hard. T_T

 

[Zet]

as the saying goes "sometimes love hurts" so pretty much things can go perfectly at times, but from time to time you'll go along a bump in the relationship and have fights etc so I guess you could say it's true that it hurts and it's true that it doesn't hurt

 

[Innocence]

Ultimately, true love is love that only makes you happy. Unfortunately, very few people have access to that kind of love. But love is also part choice, not just a feeling. You can't divorce your husband/wife just because they do something you don't life. Sadly, a lot of people do these days.

Although, I could be talking rubbish, as, instead of the symptoms that are most common, I seem to get not many of those. Mostly. But I suppose my stomach is stronger than most. Bad grammar in this paragraph, can't be bothered fixing it.

-Ryan

 

[Chaostorm]

well i had been cheated by girlz so many times . i got so mad and said : ( ARRRRGH!!! from now on i hate girlz!!!!!!). and that was a long time ago. being so mad for a fake love.......

 

[txteclipse]

Love can actually overcome or otherwise repair hurt in general. Love isn't necessarily all "happy fun time," though. A lot of actions performed out of love can actually be painful, even if they are ultimately for the better of the loved or the lover, I.E. "tough love." So I would say it can hurt, but that's a small price to pay for having love in your life.

 

[Merzbau]

Love is a state of absolute passion and devotion. Love cannot hurt.
When infidelity occurs or otherwise, the bond of love is broken. Love did not cause it. Only lust, and greed.
Love is an absolute good, to be felt by all living things for each other.

 

[Sounds]

it always depends on the loved one...

 

[Snivi]

This sums up my love life "All this time you were pretending ....so much for my happy ending"

My opinion is that love is not real except in fiction like songs, movies & books.

 

[THIRTY-SIX]

It's a double edged knife.

 

[Aurafire]

The benefits of love far outweigh the gains (IMO). Sure, there is risk involved. By our own nature, we hate putting our feelings on the line for fear of being rejected. But the satisfaction of being with someone who loves you drives us to actively seek it. And there will be break-ups, make-ups, tears, hours of talking, good times, and bad....but we do it because we hope that there is someone out there who is the one we've been looking for. The perfect match. I believe in my heart of hearts that there is someone out there for everyone, and that's why we should never stop looking for love =)

 

[Legobricks]

Love is just a part of the human reproductive cycle; nature's device to keep human mothers and fathers together as parents so that they'll care for their children properly.

It's the trust that entails love that results in its abuse.

 

[Confuse]

Having love in your life is why I think we're on Earth.

But really, What is love? Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, NO MORE...

 

[.inLOVE]

I currently have a boyfriend. It is cool because they buy you stuff all the time, but they sometimes cheat and break up with you "because it's not the right time".

 

[Stop Messing Up My Files Porygon-Z!]

Funny, cause just today, my previously-subconscious lustful alter ego awakened, and-I don't want to talk about it. Much self-punching ensued.

 

[Alex]

Well personally I think that everything can't keep you constantly happy and can't keep you constantly sad; everything is just balanced out to keep your feelings, overall, neutral. Love is the same. Love can be an incredible feeling, but it's such a fragile feeling that barely anything can break or damage it.

As a teenager, you tend to over-react with some things and ignore the good something causes you and focus on the bad. Which is why you make such a huge deal about when you get dumped or something, you just think that things can't possibly get any worse and that Love is pointless and a waste of time because you always end up crying about it. That's not true, because you're ignoring all the good times you had when you were in love.

But I also think that you only have one true love in your life, and that's usually the person you marry or decide to spend the rest of your life with (if you don't wanna get married or whatever). Some people get married without thinking, and end up getting a divorce, but your true love is the one you stay with forever, through the good times and the bad.

Love is unlike any other feeling, but let's not forget: the bigger they are, the harder they fall...

 

[Spinor]

Duele el Amor

I've always gone with that Mexican saying, I am going with it, and I will always go with it.

Love has just brought more suffering in my recent years, I am enduring it more this year, but in the past it was a mental and emotional chaos.

Hey, what can I say? The worst realization that a crush didn't like me was during the last school day in December, close to Christmas, which is supposed to be joy, and I even had a small gift bag of M&Ms for her, right before I was gonna give it to her, it happened. I held it untill I sobbed the Light Bulb In Spanish out of me at home.

Ever since, I never developed a deep relation to the girls I have a crush on...

Then again, I never tried flirting...

 

[txteclipse]

What is love? Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, NO MORE...

Maybe we should really be addressing this. There's brotherly love, romantic love, agape love (or unconditional love), and possibly more. I think they can all hurt, but for different reasons.

 

[Alex]

Then again, I never tried flirting...

You probably have flirted before because most of the time you don't even realize you're doing it, and same goes for when you're being flirted with. It's much easier to notice flirting if you see someone else doing it to someone else. XD