Love. It hurts or does it feel wonderful!

Mitchman

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    So then a love thread from Todoroki Is, the heartbroken. So do you love someone but its so painful to love them cause no matter what you are loving someone where its a dead end or do you love someone that you know is a straight and endless road? Me?
    I love this girl that I know likes me at least but that road is a dead end. Ah well*sings and plays his songs of loves on his guitar*
     
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    ...you sound pretty wistful, but I can tell where you're going with this topic. Love can be a rather strange thing to comprehend and its meaning really is subjective since everybody has different experiences and from them have different viewpoints. While two people can have mutual feelings for each other, there can be certain obstacles that prevent them from actually uniting as a couple, and that is something that's actually really painful to succumb to...and something I believe you're going through at the moment, Mitchman.

    I believe it solely depends on the connection which is shared between both individuals. It is wise to get into a relationship when you know the friendship between the both of you is strong and that there isn't room for doubt upon the feelings you've had for each other, while obstacles may come your way for as long as this relationship lasts, it boils down to how close knit that bond is to determine if these obstacles can be tackled or if they would actually break a relationship up.

    I take each one of these things to mind, not that every one of them has complete relevance to me, but from my own experiences, I truly believe I share something with somebody that has the potential to really expand even further in the future.
     
    well theres this girl that i like but she's older than me xD.
    but theres this girl that likes me but i dont really know her... but love rocks! :P
     
    Yeah. I have been in love before. It's the best feeling in the world if they love you back, and they're yours. But it's one of the worst and most depressing feelings wanting someone you can't have. If you want something like a bag or shoes, money is a savior. Nothing can make someone love yuu.
     
    I don't care about love, to be honest. I mean, I think it's a wonderful thing, but I also think that it can hurt. But, still, I don't care about it either way. It's nothing big and it's something that people seem to overuse.

    "I love chocolate"
    "I love TV"

    These are just a few of the things I'm talking about. However, we're all guilty of saying we love inanimate objects, so I am in no way trying to be hypocritical.​
     
    Love...in my life it is nothing but a joke.
     
    It could mean anything. Love can be passion, desire, lust, addiction, etc..

    For me, however, love is something you would just say to someone. I'm that kind of guy who thinks that actions are indeed stronger than words. If one always talk about how much one loves the other without even touching each other (this also includes the minor high-fives, hugs, cuddling, etc...), then I would just say that it's not love in my view.

    This is just my opinion, though.

    I once thought that one of my love, yes, I know I'm just fourteen, was endless, but it just stopped so suddenly in one year.
     
    Love... is the most wonderful feeling in the world. Or to be specific, loving someone and them loving you back is the most wonderful feeling in the world. Utter devotion to one individual, and the knowledge that you'll forever be happy with this person. I know the feeling, and it's changed my life. <3
     
    Love... is the most wonderful feeling in the world. Or to be specific, loving someone and them loving you back is the most wonderful feeling in the world. Utter devotion to one individual, and the knowledge that you'll forever be happy with this person. I know the feeling, and it's changed my life. <3

    ^ This.
    (For perhaps obvious reasons).

    I've been in relationships before, and our relationship is made difficult by the distance (though we accepted that at the beginning), but I know this time we've got it so right <3
     
    There are many types of love, you know. :3
    I honestly think platonic love feels wonderful, but romantic love...eh...it feels great at first, I guess, but of course it's always gonna hurt some time. ^^;
     
    I don't love anyone right now, but past relationships have crashed.
     
    Depends on how committed you are. If you're not committed enough, then how could it be wonderful? You're not sharing emotions, and you're really just going out with the said person because you can.

    For me, it's a wonderful thing. Love is one of the greatest feelings in this world, and it's also one of the most painful at the same time. I guess that's just the price you have to pay for such a great feeling, huh? Life can be like that.

    I vote both, but more wonderful than not.
     
    ...Oooh... Todoroki. I feel your pain...

    ...What actually are we talking about here?

    ***ENTERS THE REALM OF LOVE***

    Ahhh... Love.

    Leave One Victorious Endlessly
    Let Our Vision Exist

    What the heck?

    *Well, LOVE is wonderful... But LOVE is also painful...*

    But that's why GOD created LOVE, so that happy feelings exist in our mind, body and soul.

    We share that expression to God, family, friends, mentors, and even enemies.

    In good sacrifices, LOVE exists in a painful way, but once you realize you're doing something good, pain becomes happiness.

    When you leave the one you really love or someone passes away that you really love and care for, LOVE becomes very devastating (yes --- DEVASTATING)...

    In relationships, it depends on how you handle LOVE. LOVE is fragile, and you have to "Handle it with Care"...

    I guess I just apply the term: "Love one another" , "Love your neighbors as you Love yourself" and "Love your enemies as you love your neighbors"... :)

    ***RETURNS TO REALITY***

    Huh?

    What am I saying, I'm just 14!

    P.S. :)
     
    Well I am in a situation like that right now. I really like this girl but she has a boyfriend. So right now it is like a dead end. I mean we flirt with eachother but not sure if that means anything as she is with the other guy. I have already given up on them breaking up any time soon. Although I am taking her to prom which confuses things even more.
     
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