Be yourself, love yourself and enjoy while you're here. I'm a full-on pleasure person. I realize that the harder it takes to achieve that pleasure, the bigger it'll be, so i recognize that some things are gonna be worth the effort, while still recognizing small pleasures that dont take that much effort at all. In the end we dont even know how we're here, so lets just take joy from it, since when you get to the grave, all that ever mattered were the good and bad feelings you had.