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Spankings, ooohhhh

^^NICK^^ v.3.0

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    Touchy subject, do you believe in spankings, and would you spank your children? I'm going to leave it at that.
     
    I wouldn't spank my children.
    Mainly because to me, a bare bottom spanking is very erotic, and doing it to my own child would just feel immoral.
     
    If they really really REALLY p-iss me off I'd slap them. Just one slap, not a beating. Did you know that a very light slap that in no way causes pain can make a kid cry? They're such sissies. I'm never having any stupid brats. But I would rather that other alternatives be found. It makes me cringe when a kid in public gets slapped and you can hear it. Anyway, I was slapped, and look how normal I turned out :D.

    Oh, so now P-ISS is editted out? What's wrong with this forum? Jesus Christ...
     
    I wasn't spanked. I was beaten with a belt and TV cables. O_o;; And yes, I would do that to my kids. =/ That's why i dun wanna have any, kids are too much trouble. And I hate them.

    *dies*
     
    CaRtOON said:
    I wasn't spanked. I was beaten with a belt and TV cables. O_o;; And yes, I would do that to my kids. =/ That's why i dun wanna have any, kids are too much trouble. And I hate them.

    *dies*
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    Oh thanks.... Does that mean you hate me?

    No, I would spank my kids, hitting kids is very wrong indeed.
     
    You're no better than your disobedient child if you lower yourself to inflicting pain on them, it's WRONG to hurt anyone, and negative reinforcement of a rule is only going to slowly teach them what hatred is, what violence is, and you can bet that if it happens enough you'll never be able to control them again...I remember being hurt as a child way more clearly than I remember being treated kindly, although I was treated kindly much more. Bad memories are always stronger and more apparent in someone's mind than good memories...I don't remember anything from when I was three except my aunt shoving a bar of soap in my mouth, choking me on the suds, even though I was too young and innocent to know what I was saying...it's basically child abuse. There are much kinder and more civil ways to teach a child right from wrong; time-outs, taking away privileges, or, if they'll listen, you simply reason with them, even yell at them, but hurting my child is something beyond that which I'm capable of.
     
    i would only spank my kids if they did something REALLY bad. otherwise, i'd just give them a time-out or take away something from them.
     
    Legendary Pokegirl said:
    Oh thanks.... Does that mean you hate me?

    No, I would spank my kids, hitting kids is very wrong indeed.
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    No, I dun hate you. o_o; I just meant little little kids. XP Sorry if you thought something else. X.x;

    I think hitting kids is okay as long as you're not hitting them nearly to death. o.o; I mean, kids today are punks due to the fact they don't get the crap beaten out by their parents. Peeps need to teach kids that they're the bosses, so a little slap wouldn't hurt anybody. But I don't think hitting a baby is right, that's wrong. O.o; I think hitting a child should only be as the last resort, not as a warning.

    *dies*
     
    But little kids arent puppies! XD And a little slap would hurt somebody....the kid.
     
    Tme-outs and stuff only work if the parents follow through with it. Which they usually don't. They say "Time out for 5 minutes" and in less than a minute they give in. They say "No TV for a week", but then they slack off and the kid gets back into the routine of TV watching. People are weak and stupid, and as a result a new generation of losers is being made.
     
    Iveechan said:
    Tme-outs and stuff only work if the parents follow through with it. Which they usually don't. They say "Time out for 5 minutes" and in less than a minute they give in. They say "No TV for a week", but then they slack off and the kid gets back into the routine of TV watching. People are weak and stupid, and as a result a new generation of losers is being made.
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    Couldn't have said it better myself.

    Legendary Pokegirl said:
    But little kids arent puppies! XD And a little slap would hurt somebody....the kid.
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    But its that kids today refuse to listen. They give in to their darn peers and end up doing stuff. ;__; Parents have to discipline them.

    *dies*
     
    Im not having kids, if I wanted to beat some1, I have my targets :D :dead:
    anyway, yeah, Kid Beating, I guess its wrong.
     
    I would never spank my kids, even if a really bad situation were to come up. Not only does it hurt him or her, but it begins to tear away at the relationship you two hold. I would like more then anything to gain respect from child (if that time ever comes), and while it is possible to obtain it through these means, it will all be because of the constant fear of you hurting them again. Sometimes, when my sisters and I go to the park, I see a few parents getting ridiculously angry at their children, and begin calling them names and such, just because they couldn't hit a ball, or go down a slide. While this certainly isn't physical abuse, I'm still stunned by this sight. When kids are so young, they always aspire to be like their parents, the people who are supposed to love them to no end. These kind of things really hurt them.... not just physically, but mentally as well.

    There are other ways to discipline your children, but I just this kind of physical abuse cruel.
     
    *realizes 100Marios is a girl* Whoa dude.. o_o;;

    Anyways, I dun know. Maybe this kind of topic is one of those "neither-side-wins". Cus mostly peeps that get beaten agree with abuse. That's the way they've been brought up. I envy peeps who are more compassionate not to hit their kids, I wish I was like that. Kids love peeps like that. If I had kids, I'd make their life a living heck. I'd be a terrible momma.

    *dies*
     
    In the the Bible it says something about not provoking your children, so I'm not gonna...ewwwww.....do that, besides... it's disgusting...I get hit enough with the belt....>:)
    a1377a, I agree....and people, don't think that just cause I'mn 12 doesn't mean I don't know anything and don't know what 'erotic' means...thank you
     
    CaRtOON said:



    I think hitting kids is okay as long as you're not hitting them nearly to death. o.o; I mean, kids today are punks due to the fact they don't get the crap beaten out by their parents. Peeps need to teach kids that they're the bosses, so a little slap wouldn't hurt anybody. But I don't think hitting a baby is right, that's wrong. O.o; I think hitting a child should only be as the last resort, not as a warning.

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    Yeah, I totally agree. If you don't hit your hit them for doing bad stuff, they will walk all over you, like those kids on Maury. I got spanked/beat whatever you want to call it before. I'm not saying it's fun, but it teaches me discipline. And, I think you should only do it when your child has crossed the line, only. Not for stupid things, because that's like, abuse. If I have children, I will try to use spankings or whatever as a last resort, because I don't think it's that cool to beat kids, because beating is somethign you do to like, a robber or something. Gosh, was that confusing or what?
     
    Iveechan said:
    Tme-outs and stuff only work if the parents follow through with it. Which they usually don't. They say "Time out for 5 minutes" and in less than a minute they give in. They say "No TV for a week", but then they slack off and the kid gets back into the routine of TV watching. People are weak and stupid, and as a result a new generation of losers is being made.
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    Still, that's the responsibility of the parents...if they're actually going to give in to their kid that's pretty sad.
     
    If you can raise them properly to begin with you'll probably never have to result to that. I've never done any "bad" or "wrong", thusly never been "disciplined". I was taught very early on right from wrong, so I never ended up doing anything that result with being hit. But then again, I don't have the type of parents who would hit their children.

    Parents today (for the most part) give their children too much freedom early on and spoil them. Then from this freedom their child can feel that they have the right to act "negativley" (although the child may not think it is). Then the parents react and hit because the child isn't comprehending this thing called discipline and restrictions since they've never been introduced to it.
     
    TRIFORCE89 said:
    If you can raise them properly to begin with you'll probably never have to result to that.
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    Okay, that's false. No child never doesn't do any wrong, it's impossible. Everybody makes mistakes, and nobody is perfect.
     
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