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No actually its great real great but its one of those situations that have all the pain in the ass worries to think about after you did so. I asked this girl out right? Well of course she took it both ways i mean the only way in my language goes both ways but the way you say it depends. Now im guessing she took it how i meant it as we both glanced at her friend and answered her sarcastically when she asked if i should leave. Now the worries are if i become friends with her hopefully it evolves into something else and i can tell her my feelings before i burst before some guy comes in and stuff like that. But otherwise completely freaking awesome. I mean she is even one grade higher then me and stuff like that rarely happens in high school where i am.
 
Mitchman Is said:
No actually its great real great but its one of those situations that have all the pain in the ass worries to think about after you did so. I asked this girl out right? Well of course she took it both ways i mean the only way in my language goes both ways but the way you say it depends. Now im guessing she took it how i meant it as we both glanced at her friend and answered her sarcastically when she asked if i should leave. Now the worries are if i become friends with her hopefully it evolves into something else and i can tell her my feelings before i burst before some guy comes in and stuff like that. But otherwise completely freaking awesome. I mean she is even one grade higher then me and stuff like that rarely happens in high school where i am.
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That's not good. You shouldn't do that to a girl's friend regardless of what she asks you (or even if the girl you like did it). That's an unwritten law that everyone should follow when asking someone out on a date; especially if it's a girl and especially if that person asked you to leave when you were asking her friend out. Typically, you should befriend someone you're asking to go out first, and get to know them (not just let your hormones get the best of you and just go out because she turns you on) as well as getting to know her friends. That way, she knows that it's more of a serious thing when you ask her and you wouldn't feel so nervous because you'd know more about her and what she likes to do. But what's done is done.
 
I did mention we both did did i not? I mean we were friends a bit not much like hang out and such but we knew each other. We also gave hints to each other but at different days and totally random. I mean one day we would flirt the other day we would just wave at each other. Its a really not confusing but strange thing that mixes in with cool. And no dude i do plan to get to know her and hang out with her friend and hang out with her friends. This will also be the second group of girls i would hang out with (hopefully) meaning that i do understand the thinking of the girls where i live.
 
Wow...GF/BF chat? Since when did this thread become an advice column? XD
Anyways we're back in school! How's everyone doing in the "fun" world of the educational system?
Eh...I'm just going through the motions now...I really need to get back into shape for Sem-Finals.
 
I was actually chuffed with my day at school today.
I had to do a speech in front of the class, unfortunately I hadn't prepared for it one bit. D:

However I got up there and improvised the whole thing, I was then rewarded an A! xD

Alas, it's not all good; I got thrown off my Drama GCSE course. ._.'
 
Aurapostle said:
That's not good. You shouldn't do that to a girl's friend regardless of what she asks you (or even if the girl you like did it). That's an unwritten law that everyone should follow when asking someone out on a date; especially if it's a girl and especially if that person asked you to leave when you were asking her friend out. Typically, you should befriend someone you're asking to go out first, and get to know them (not just let your hormones get the best of you and just go out because she turns you on) as well as getting to know her friends. That way, she knows that it's more of a serious thing when you ask her and you wouldn't feel so nervous because you'd know more about her and what she likes to do. But what's done is done.
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Eh, although I agree with becoming friends, and while I'm sure you were referring to Mitch's situation in particular, there's a lot of times where you're not sure if you want to really be with a girl/guy, even if you find them personally attractive. I can definitely say a number of girls I was slightly interested became a major 'no' when I found out who they hang out with/are constantly influenced by, how they're family acts (which of course I would never judge her based on, yet if she's a family girl and her parents or siblings are hard to cope with, it might become difficult), and other traits and what not that she wouldn't have shown normally. There's been multiple times with girls and just regular possible-friends alike where you actually sit down to get to know them and want to just back away slowly. XD

Netto Azure said:
Wow...GF/BF chat? Since when did this thread become an advice column? XD
Anyways we're back in school! How's everyone doing in the "fun" world of the educational system?
Eh...I'm just going through the motions now...I really need to get back into shape for Sem-Finals.
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Semi-finals pour...?

Josephine said:
I was actually chuffed with my day at school today.
I had to do a speech in front of the class, unfortunately I hadn't prepared for it one bit. D:

However I got up there and improvised the whole thing, I was then rewarded an A! xD

Alas, it's not all good; I got thrown off my Drama GCSE course. ._.'
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O_o I don't know what GCSE might be, but I'm sorry! At least your speech went well. Speaking of speech (lol), I have to make sure to ace my Speech class this semester. Shouldn't be too hard so long as I put all the work into it.
 
Volkner's Apprentice said:
Eh, although I agree with becoming friends, and while I'm sure you were referring to Mitch's situation in particular, there's a lot of times where you're not sure if you want to really be with a girl/guy, even if you find them personally attractive. I can definitely say a number of girls I was slightly interested became a major 'no' when I found out who they hang out with/are constantly influenced by, how they're family acts (which of course I would never judge her based on, yet if she's a family girl and her parents or siblings are hard to cope with, it might become difficult), and other traits and what not that she wouldn't have shown normally. There's been multiple times with girls and just regular possible-friends alike where you actually sit down to get to know them and want to just back away slowly. XD
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While that's sometimes true, other times it's not.

Besides, if he wants to make this work, then he has to get to know her before anything serious happens. It's like becoming best friends with someone you don't even know... it makes no sense. Anyway, if you want to take it to the next level then more than likely, the chances are that you'll want to get to know her anyway.

And it's a good thing if he does get to know her because he might then realise that he doesn't want to be with this girl, so.. getting to know them is the best thing to do.
 
Kishoku said:
While that's sometimes true, other times it's not.

Besides, if he wants to make this work, then he has to get to know her before anything serious happens. It's like becoming best friends with someone you don't even know... it makes no sense. Anyway, if you want to take it to the next level then more than likely, the chances are that you'll want to get to know her anyway.

And it's a good thing if he does get to know her because he might then realise that he doesn't want to be with this girl, so.. getting to know them is the best thing to do.
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Oh, of course, like I said for his situation it's the right call. Though the way he worded that earlier, I didn't understand what the friend of the girl was asking/saying/being asked. o_o

You obviously want to be decent friends with a girl before attempting to ask her out, yet from what I've heard from friends who have been in a few relationships as well as from some girls themselves, it takes sometime between 2 weeks and 2 months for the girl to stop thinking of you as a 'potential' and more of a brotherly friend. When that happens, you've got your work cut out for you to try and date her. XD Obviously that doesn't always happen, depending on how well you get to know her. Getting to know her mega well in the 'just friends' stage might not be the best idea. Same goes for vice versa, give yourself a little bit of mystery thrown in. and hopefully it shant be a terrible surprise later on
 
Too bad someone can't just write a catch-all book of relationship advice. It would make life much less confusing. X(
 
It's good fun finding the right person for you.
 
Aurafire said:
Too bad someone can't just write a catch-all book of relationship advice. It would make life much less confusing. X(
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No. That would ruin the relationship. You should be able to handle your girl/man no matter how bad they get... If you cant handle them at their worst then I dont think you deserve them at their best :/

Although no-one deserves power/rights over other people, relationships tend to lend that power and create egotistic-ness.
 
Youre all right. But yeah i dont want to know her too much and she knows me too much cause then if you become best friends or have a brotherly/sisterly friendship it is then super hard to actually adjust into dating them and i do not want that to happen again. But thanks again and i hope she does keep the day saturday. Is there a chance she gave me a fake number just to avoid me? Also sorry for sounding annoying or such but does the fact that she probably knew it was coming and she answered really fast-i mean i finished and not even a second later she said yes-mean anything at all?
 
Hmm although this belongs in PYP... Meh.

Okay, she could be; embarassed, shy, thouht about it before, just dieing to have you with her xD

I dont think her answering is a bad thing unless its a sign that shes using you... Which im doubting.
 
True. Also i just noticed my post number is 3,555 3 fives geddit?
Anyway lol yeah i am not to worried hopefully my phone with no screen that works can do ringtones i mean it does make calls. But i am not to worried and i am sure that she likes me as well. i mean the way her friend saw me told her and she turned like snap could be nothing but the way she leaned in eagerly to hear what i was going to say could mean something. As they say relationships are hard and they are hard to build and really hard to know when you shoulkd bild one. Seeing as this might be my first one im going to lie down as my brain is hurting.
 
haha yeah your first relationship will always be a mouthful :x

Just remember that as long as you're yourself and she finds happiness and love in that; its okay.

Otherwise, being someone you aren't coughlikemeonceuponatimecough can lead to more problems and end up hurting yourself.
 
Oh no way i am not going to be myself. Sure i am going to cover up the rough edges but all in all i am going to be myself. I think what is the part that makes me happy is that usually the girls where i am go for guys that are older or in their age group and she might actually start a relationship with me when i am 1 year younger. I think that is something cool and it shows what kinda person they are.
 
Aurafire said:
Too bad someone can't just write a catch-all book of relationship advice. It would make life much less confusing. X(
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don't worry, that's all ready on my to do list, you might see it in like five to ten years depending how lazy I am

Mitchman Is said:
Oh no way i am not going to be myself. Sure i am going to cover up the rough edges but all in all i am going to be myself. I think what is the part that makes me happy is that usually the girls where i am go for guys that are older or in their age group and she might actually start a relationship with me when i am 1 year younger. I think that is something cool and it shows what kinda person they are.
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thats good, you should always be yourself around girls
 
Not totally though i mean i kind of make stupid jokes and i really do get nervous sometimes but hell everything around me is changing. Im changing even. I think its the whole new me with a new start that is making me like this. Dont you love it when you are a loser who is a bit fat and everyone acts your friend but then you have your one true friend you talk to her and boom you just change cause you wake up and smell the coffee? Yeah i love it as it is really making things better for me. Only part that i am stuck at is the how t escape the house after tellling my dad 5 minutes before i leave that i got myself a date. I say that as he will be all who is she why not tell me earlier and what bout her parents and such. but i think a sufficient i am late and if you ruin this chance i will hate you forever thing will work smoothly and pretend to tell him everything(by that i mean half the things). I love life and the way it works. Anyway as this is all hush hush from parents i am going to move on to other chat and see if we can skip a page to change subject. Aha i know. How stupid is the world. I mean i have some friends who think america is all gangsters and black people popping caps in yo ass. The idiots.
 
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