The Post Your Problems Thread

[THIRTY-SIX]

45kg is underweight. I'm slightly underweight and I still weigh more than you. o.o'
110 - 140 is apparently a good weight to be at.

 

[.inLOVE]

According to everyone I know, I am at a bad weight for my age.

I do think I look fat and horrible. I can just BARELY fit into a girl's size instead of young women's, like my friends wear. I want to be skinny and pretty.

 

[doesn't matter]

Well if that's what the doctor told you, then it's best you listen to them and work on changing your situation. It'll be hard, but it's for your own good.

 

[Weatherman Kiyoshi]

According to everyone I know, I am at a bad weight for my age.

I do think I look fat and horrible. I can just BARELY fit into a girl's size instead of young women's, like my friends wear. I want to be skinny and pretty.

ah, that settles it.

your anorexic.

If you a lighter than a 11 year old,
for god's sake your lighter than me,

and you feel you look fat & horrible at 100 pounds, your anorexic.
damn.
that sucks.

I suggest gaining weight.
your best shot is at McDonalds. Order the double burger and a milkshake or something.

 

[doesn't matter]

I suggest gaining weight.
your best shot is at McDonalds. Order the double burger and a milkshake or something.

If you're suggesting that she eat McDonalds to get healthier, then you really shouldn't be saying anything. She just needs to eat more, and not to rush that either.

Anyway, I just realised that this belongs in the Post Your Problems thread, so yeah.

merged​

 

[Shiny]

I suggest eating alot of apples, I've heard that they have fat in them xD

 

[Emii]

According to everyone I know, I am at a bad weight for my age.

I do think I look fat and horrible. I can just BARELY fit into a girl's size instead of young women's, like my friends wear. I want to be skinny and pretty.

Ohh, that sort of happened to me before. But not purposely, I was just never really hungry.. so I lost a bunch of weight. But I thought I was fat too, because my tummy is kind of fat. But not eating won't help. next time you eat, your body will build up a lot of fat, because your body thinks it's starving. So it builds up fat to not starve. I have to exercise to lose that fatty parts that I don't like.

and you don't have to fit into girl's sizes to look pretty. =) I'm 18 and weigh 100 too, and I used to wear size 0. but now I wear size 3. I didn't gain a bit of weight, my hips just got wider. when I still tried to squeeze in the small jeans, it made me look fat because it squeezed my stomach out and stuff. I look alot better in the slightly bigger size. =D I weigh so little because I'm only about 5'3" though.. so it also depends on how tall you are.

and anyway, I went t the doctor when that happened to me. He said I was anorexic. So I just started eating regularly, even though I wasn't hungry. then I was just fine! =)

and I'm 100% sure you don't look fat and horrible! You just see the parts that you don't like, and think that everyone else sees it that way too, but they really don't. I remember my doctor said "The most critical person about yourself is you."

Hope that helped~

 

[Weatherman Kiyoshi]

If you're suggesting that she eat McDonalds to get healthier, then you really shouldn't be saying anything. She just needs to eat more, and not to rush that either.

Anyway, I just realised that this belongs in the Post Your Problems thread, so yeah.

merged​

joke.
since, McDonalds'd happy meal = 1 hour of running to burn off

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anywayyy,

I really suggest that you gain more weight,
perhaps eating a little more at lunch & dinner.
eating some snacks in between.

just continue that, it works for almost anybody.
also, get some confidence in yourself,
feel your pretty no matter what weight you are (Or what anybody else says, for that matter).

 

[Guillermo]

Well most of the time if you are anorexic then you tend to puke up what you have just recently eaten, making the situation even more worse. I would suggest consulting a doctor and really take in what they say, if you feel anorexic then tell them how you feel when you eat and all of that stuff, I don't think it will help but maybe check out a psychiatrist for positive info.

 

[Counterfeit]

A bite! Owowowow!

I don't know what bit me, but it did on my leg, it's now gone red around it and has two red lines coming off of it.

I might see the doctor tomorrow, but hate them. >.<

 

[Tokin]

probably an insect with a long lasting effect poison, keep the area clean, clear and preferably cold, if it does not go away in a few days, see someone^^

 

[Kenshin5]

You might want to get that checked as soon as possible.The longer you wait the worse it will get especially if its poisonous.

 

[Lash]

Yay, here with a problem of wondering whether I should feel guilt or not. Since I don't want to type an entire paragraph or two with some bs that is barely related to the problem, I'll just post the point or w/e.

I have a friend, Adam, and this weekend, I sort of blew him off. I had three friends of mine spend the night at my house after some day-to-night airsofting. Sure, I had a fun, but I got a call from Adam. He is a good friend of mine, but he is a total prick sometimes, mean-nice scale being a 60/40 deal. Though, when he is nice, he is a really good guy. Other than that, he's an insulting bastard, and I am sort of self-conscientious about a weight problem I have :x

Also, I am not trying to make him sound like a bad guy, but, him and I use to go to the same pos school. Now, I go to a different school, and when he called me, telling me that I was going to spend the night at his house, he pretty much made it known that he is going to <lol censor> at me till I go back to the school :x

So, I am still wondering whether I should feel guilty or not for blowing him off. I am thinking I sort of should, since I am one of his only friends his age :x

 

[Confuse]

Yay, here with a problem of wondering whether I should feel guilt or not. Since I don't want to type an entire paragraph or two with some bs that is barely related to the problem, I'll just post the point or w/e.

I have a friend, Adam, and this weekend, I sort of blew him off. I had three friends of mine spend the night at my house after some day-to-night airsofting. Sure, I had a fun, but I got a call from Adam. He is a good friend of mine, but he is a total prick sometimes, mean-nice scale being a 60/40 deal. Though, when he is nice, he is a really good guy. Other than that, he's an insulting bastard, and I am sort of self-conscientious about a weight problem I have :x

Also, I am not trying to make him sound like a bad guy, but, him and I use to go to the same pos school. Now, I go to a different school, and when he called me, telling me that I was going to spend the night at his house, he pretty much made it known that he is going to <lol censor> at me till I go back to the school :x

So, I am still wondering whether I should feel guilty or not for blowing him off. I am thinking I sort of should, since I am one of his only friends his age :x

This is my first post of advice here.

I have a neighbor who's like that, except his scale is about 80-20. I think that insults you and threatens you just because you didn't want to hang out with him ain't a friend.

He sounds more like a very angry aquaintance.

I really wouldn't feel bad, even though he doesn't have a lot of friends. Everyone makes friends on their own time. I don't know why someone would want to be his friend in the first place. His attitude's gotta change or somethin'.

But that's just my opinion. Hope this helps.

 

[Kenshin5]

If you didnt want to go to his house and he said you are going to my house.Then you blew him off you should not feel guilty if it wasnt a mutual arangement.I would have said I have plans maybe some other time sorry.

 

[Lash]

This is my first post of advice here.

I have a neighbor who's like that, except his scale is about 80-20. I think that insults you and threatens you just because you didn't want to hang out with him ain't a friend.

He sounds more like a very angry aquaintance.

I really wouldn't feel bad, even though he doesn't have a lot of friends. Everyone makes friends on their own time. I don't know why someone would want to be his friend in the first place. His attitude's gotta change or somethin'.

But that's just my opinion. Hope this helps.

And yes, it has, thanks. And, you're right about the angry aquaintance thing, last time when I spent the night, he insulted me for my GUITAR HERO PLAYING SKILLS.

If you didnt want to go to his house and he said you are going to my house.Then you blew him off you should not feel guilty if it wasnt a mutual arangement.I would have said I have plans maybe some other time sorry.

That has also helped, thanks.

 

[Memory]

Okay here I go again.

I'm 13 years old, my boyfriend's 17 and lives in Tennessee while I live in Colorado, we've never met face to face, we absolutely love each other to death I know for a fact he is who he is we video call all the time etc. etc. etc.

The problem is his mom just took away his phone and internet, so we can't contact at all - she doesn't like me very much.

How do ya think I should handle the situation? His mom said that he can't get his stuff back until he gets "counseling." I can't talk to him at ALL, which really hurts me... what should I do?

 

[Kenshin5]

Do you know his address?If you do just mail him letters and hope he gets them before it gets to his mom.That is the only thing I could think of right now.Also I dont see the reason she doesnt like you if you never met with her face to face either.Myself I could say I would like or dislike a person unless I met in person.

 

[Confuse]

Okay here I go again.

I'm 13 years old, my boyfriend's 17 and lives in Tennessee while I live in Colorado, we've never met face to face, we absolutely love each other to death I know for a fact he is who he is we video call all the time etc. etc. etc.

The problem is his mom just took away his phone and internet, so we can't contact at all - she doesn't like me very much.

How do ya think I should handle the situation? His mom said that he can't get his stuff back until he gets "counseling." I can't talk to him at ALL, which really hurts me... what should I do?

Maybe his mom is upset about the age difference(if she knows.)

What kinda shocks me is that you've never met face to face. I'd like to at least be in the same room as the person before committing to serious relationship.

But that's just me. I'm 14, and I don't have a girl.

And how do you know this guy isn't completely different once the video call is over?

 

[Kenshin5]

"And how do you know this guy isn't completely different once the video call is over?"
I agree he could act one way on the internet and another way in person.
About the age difference 4 years really isnt that much of an age difference.