The Post Your Problems Thread

[Champion Victoria]

What exactly is tripping you up with regards to English?

 

[Spinor]

My mom tells me I have to get all A's or B's by the end of this week or I will have both of my computers plus my DS taken away... Can I do it?

Grades:
Science - A
Geography - B
P.E. - A
English - C
Spanish - C
Math - B

I got Geography, Math, and Spanish covered, but English is going to be hard. I just got another F on my assignment today at school and I only have 1 more chance for a low B.

Chances are, you, my friend, won't exist here for a long time :( .

Seriously, English WILL be hard. I take English 1 grade beyond my general grade, and Math 2 levels beyond my default. And I believe you take ELA 8th. If you live in Texas, my tips will probably get you into the Middle B's.

Ask for Extra Credit assignments

Ask for Re-tests in tests you got under a 65. The highest you will get according to Law is a 70.

Turn in those damn assignments you have missing!

If all else fails. Watch the Beginning of Transformers: The Movie.

 

[Rise Against]

There is this person, who I can not stand. I do not know how to tell him to just back off because I am not mean like that. Also, I think that I am his only friend.. how should I tell him? I don't want to do it in a way that will make him feel bad or anything.. I just cant stand him and don't know how to tell him to back off. I Can't go anywhere without him, except my house.

Also, my friend is feeling realy bad because her boyfriend broke up w/ her. I tried to help her, but nothing seemed to work. She still likes him, but he-well I don't know how he feels..-. I also do not want to do anything to get him mad because he is my cousin, but then again I do not personally like my cousin,but we are family..

 

[Nick]

There is this person, who I can not stand. I do not know how to tell him to just back off because I am not mean like that. Also, I think that I am his only friend.. how should I tell him? I don't want to do it in a way that will make him feel bad or anything.. I just cant stand him and don't know how to tell him to back off. I Can't go anywhere without him, except my house.

I know how you feel about that kind of thing. It's better to just straight out tell him. In real life, I used to be exactly the same way. I didn't like telling someone to back off for whatever reason and I didn't really understand why I couldn't do that. But eventually, people just pissed me off far more than I ever really could be pissed off normally, which surprises even me, and I just snapped. Now I don't have a real problem offline telling someone how I feel about them. Even if that may sound rude and all, it's very true. But I don't have the need to tell anyone unless they do what you have a problem with. Reason I responded to this is because I relate exactly to this and was just in a problem with this a few days ago actually. You could say:

* "Quit followin' me."
* "How would you feel if someone was up your ass 24 hours a day?" in a tone that is questionable and he would think it's a real question.
* ""name here", you're really annoying and I don't like you. Go away." and then smile nicely (better effect if your eyes are closed when you smile). But he may take that as a joke. :[

There really... isn't a nice way to tell someone to leave you alone, though. So, unless you don't want to do any of those, I'm afraid I don't have any other advice other than to try to avoid him. :B

Also, my friend is feeling realy bad because her boyfriend broke up w/ her. I tried to help her, but nothing seemed to work. She still likes him, but he-well I don't know how he feels..-. I also do not want to do anything to get him mad because he is my cousin, but then again I do not personally like my cousin,but we are family..

Don't do anything. Some people look at something like that as you trying to get involved in something that isn't your business. Along with that, nothing seems to work for her anyway. Sometimes people just need to ride things out.

 

[Rise Against]

Don't do anything. Some people look at something like that as you trying to get involved in something that isn't your business. Along with that, nothing seems to work for her anyway. Sometimes people just need to ride things out.

Yeah, but it is getting even worse. He got a new gf-then dumped her,she also my friend.. and now another gf-she also my friend- and I really don't like to see my friends sad. I think he is going to let down his current Gf and break up with her. Also, his first gf and his current gf used to be friends, but now they do not like eachother.. well I guess in a way you are right, I know a lot of people who hate eachother one day then the next day are best friends... I really do not know what to do..

 

[Spinor]

On your first problem:

The exact thing happened to me, I was just trying to be friends with this girl, but then she said she felt that I was following. It sucked badly, I really liked her :(.

It depends on his personality. He SHOULD understand if he's normal, but... if he's not... you know... not straight...

Just tell him you feel like he follows you too much.

 

[DarkPrince_]

Urgent Help Needed! Respond ASAP!

Okay well there is this girl that I really like but I think another boy likes her too. I need some help deciding what to do before its too late. Please help me I really need it. Thank you for all your help and try to respond ASAP with info please. Thank you.

 

[Zet]

well this pretty much belongs here

and I might as well tell you what you should do, just ask the girl out

 

[Chibi-chan]

Okay well there is this girl that I really like but I think another boy likes her too. I need some help deciding what to do before its too late. Please help me I really need it. Thank you for all your help and try to respond ASAP with info please. Thank you.

If you look around this thread, you might find other answers that may match your question. :3
It also would have been better if you posted here too instead of made your own thread.

Unless the other boy if your friend, don't worry about it. You can try to make him like someone else though...

 

[Motsuko Live]

Okay well there is this girl that I really like but I think another boy likes her too. I need some help deciding what to do before its too late. Please help me I really need it. Thank you for all your help and try to respond ASAP with info please. Thank you.

Do you know this other guy? If not, then go for it. It's a dog eat dog world out there, bud. If this other guy happens to be your friend, then you should probably talk to him about it. Or let the girl decide who she'd rather hang out with, if either of you.

 

[Azzurra]

Okay, here is my problem.
People have been acting like hypocrites at my college, and have been telling people not to bully others, but they bully people themselves.

I'm 19 years of age, and they're 22 or so, so it's hard for me to tell them to stop because they don't listen to a nobody like me, any ideas?

 

[txteclipse]

I wouldn't give a crap about age differences. You seem to be acquainted with these people fairly well if you know this much about them: I'd recommend just telling them to knock it off. Show them that telling people not to bully and then turning around and doing it themselves makes them look like morons (try not to say it like that, but you get the idea).

 

[Pachel22]

Well my parents are breaking up and now 3 of my brothers and 1 litle sister stay with my mom and 1 brother with my dad.
I live with my grandparents.
But the problem is my mom can't be trusted to watch over those 4 what can I best do with this.
I'm kinda emotionaly stressed with it.

 

[Saltare.]

Well my parents are breaking up and now 3 of my brothers and 1 litle sister stay with my mom and 1 brother with my dad.
I live with my grandparents.
But the problem is my mom can't be trusted to watch over those 4 what can I best do with this.
I'm kinda emotionaly stressed with it.

its always hard to go through that. My friend lives in Germany cuz her parents seperated. Well, talk to your mom and dad about sending each on over on weekends and holidays. And if your mom can't be trusted, then ask your grandparents to take in some of your other siblings.


My Problem-

My boyfriend Jarred, and his friend Jon, have been buds forever! And now Jon says he will only be Jarred's friend if he breaks up with me. And I don't wana break up their friendship. Jarred told me not to worry at all but I am! Please help! Im really emotionaly stressed!

 

[Rogue planet]

My Problem-

My boyfriend Jarred, and his friend Jon, have been buds forever! And now Jon says he will only be Jarred's friend if he breaks up with me. And I don't wana break up their friendship. Jarred told me not to worry at all but I am! Please help! Im really emotionaly stressed!

It sounds like Jon is jealous, has he given a reason for not liking you? My bet is you shouldn't worry about it, Jon says that but if they really are good friends then he won't stop being a pal to Jarred no matter what, they may not talk to each other for a few weeks. If Jarred says not to worry about it then you shouldn't, it is his friend after all.

My problem:
My family have seperated themselves alot more recently, my mum and dad have been divorced for 10 years so usually I just spent half the time with each side of their family but now my Dads side of the family has fallen apart, one of my uncles is now living in Saudi with his family and the other wants nothing to do with anyone but he will see only me and dad on occasions but not christmas; my aunty has cut herself off and nobody knows where she is. My dad travels from East to West England to see me but that means we aren't with my nan (his mum) so she has to spend christmas alone. I don't know whether I should go and stay with my dad to spend christmas with her and my dad at her house but not spend any time with my mum, or if I should stay where I am, not see my nan at all (who I get along with well) so I can spend time with my mum and then see my dad at the hotel. To make things worse my mum has decided she dosn't want to spend christmas with her mum or siblings anymore who I also get along well with.

So I have to pick out of 4 options and it is really hard to choose: Spend christmas with my mums mum and my mums siblings, with just my mum and my brother and see my dad a little bit at the hotel, with my dad at the hotel and see my mum a little bit at home or travel to East England to spend it with my dad and nan.

I hate this and it ruins my christmas because my family can't get along.

 

[Saltare.]

It sounds like Jon is jealous, has he given a reason for not liking you? My bet is you shouldn't worry about it, Jon says that but if they really are good friends then he won't stop being a pal to Jarred no matter what, they may not talk to each other for a few weeks. If Jarred says not to worry about it then you shouldn't, it is his friend after all.

My problem:
My family have seperated themselves alot more recently, my mum and dad have been divorced for 10 years so usually I just spent half the time with each side of their family but now my Dads side of the family has fallen apart, one of my uncles is now living in Saudi with his family and the other wants nothing to do with anyone but he will see only me and dad on occasions but not christmas; my aunty has cut herself off and nobody knows where she is. My dad travels from East to West England to see me but that means we aren't with my nan (his mum) so she has to spend christmas alone. I don't know whether I should go and stay with my dad to spend christmas with her and my dad at her house but not spend any time with my mum, or if I should stay where I am, not see my nan at all (who I get along with well) so I can spend time with my mum and then see my dad at the hotel. To make things worse my mum has decided she dosn't want to spend christmas with her mum or siblings anymore who I also get along well with.

So I have to pick out of 4 options and it is really hard to choose: Spend christmas with my mums mum and my mums siblings, with just my mum and my brother and see my dad a little bit at the hotel, with my dad at the hotel and see my mum a little bit at home or travel to East England to spend it with my dad and nan.

I hate this and it ruins my christmas because my family can't get along.

Thanks for the advice. And Jon is jealous. He wants Jarred to date his sister.


Result to ur prob.:


Seems like your in quite a fix my friend. But, if your family can't get along, have you ever tried to spend time with them and ask them why they can't get along? If that can't help, I'm sorry

 

[DarkPrince_]

I am having the exact same problem with girls. There is this girl I like but I think another boy likes her too. I have got to win her before he does.

 

[Anxiety.]

I am having the exact same problem with girls. There is this girl I like but I think another boy likes her too. I have got to win her before he does.

Here's some tips:

- Hang around with her more, ask her to come round your house or something
- Walk her home if you can
- Be kind, help her with homework or something
- Don't be too frontal, because then she might take it as a joke, or get scared and loose sleep over it
- Be subtle, slide in a few minor hints
- Be yourself, because no girl likes to find out that the person she likes is fake.

I hope that helped, even if it is a little.

 

[Rockéttes]

My family have seperated themselves alot more recently, my mum and dad have been divorced for 10 years so usually I just spent half the time with each side of their family but now my Dads side of the family has fallen apart, one of my uncles is now living in Saudi with his family and the other wants nothing to do with anyone but he will see only me and dad on occasions but not christmas; my aunty has cut herself off and nobody knows where she is. My dad travels from East to West England to see me but that means we aren't with my nan (his mum) so she has to spend christmas alone. I don't know whether I should go and stay with my dad to spend christmas with her and my dad at her house but not spend any time with my mum, or if I should stay where I am, not see my nan at all (who I get along with well) so I can spend time with my mum and then see my dad at the hotel. To make things worse my mum has decided she dosn't want to spend christmas with her mum or siblings anymore who I also get along well with.

So I have to pick out of 4 options and it is really hard to choose: Spend christmas with my mums mum and my mums siblings, with just my mum and my brother and see my dad a little bit at the hotel, with my dad at the hotel and see my mum a little bit at home or travel to East England to spend it with my dad and nan.

I hate this and it ruins my christmas because my family can't get along.

Your family won't hate you if you don't spend Christmas with them, so spend it with whoever you want. I mean, your parents chose to get a divorce; you might have had some say in the matter, but it was ultimately their decision. By breaking up, they've accepted the fact they might not get to see you during Christmas. Same with all your other family members who've 'abandoned' you guys.

So don't feel bad about 'picking favorites'. I know this may be harsh, but they brought it upon themselves. It would be totally unreasonable of them to hold it against you.

I am having the exact same problem with girls. There is this girl I like but I think another boy likes her too. I have got to win her before he does.

Ask her on a date. How's she suppose to even know you're interested if you don't make the first move? If it goes well, then... good for you! If it doesn't, then at least you can say you tried, and move on.

 

[/Circa]

Theres this girl that likes me, I know cause alot of people told me and she told them, plus theyre are trustable, and I think I like her too, but she never talks to me anymore, and acts as if she hates me, plus shes trying to avoid me.

What do I do.