The Post Your Problems Thread

[Mitchman]

But what about her? She needs an education as well. Are your parents supportive at least?

 

[Syrex]

My parents do not know yet.

She says she is going to complete school and wants to be a nurse.

I hope it goes as planned.

 

[Mitchman]

Well you should tell them soon no? So your parents and her parents can talk and such. If she does become a nurse yay for her! But is she going to college now and is older or she is senior year like you and well yeah plans to go to college?

 

[Weatherman Kiyoshi]

My parents do not know yet.

She says she is going to complete school and wants to be a nurse.

I hope it goes as planned.

Oh my...
This is probably why they emphasize the whole "DON'T DRINK UNTIL YOUR 21".

Because, something like this can happen.

Well, I would go with the mother-to-be (MTB),
because I would rather sit on a bed of spikes before I let myself not become a part of my kid's life.

I hate to tell ya dude, but it's sorta both you and the MTB's fault in this happening.
You for getting too drunk,
and hers for wanting sex without any of you having protection.

I would suggest you break it off with your current girlfriend, and if things can never work out for you and the MTB, then go back.

It's your choices.

 

[Syrex]

She is a junior. year younger.

The thing is. My parents and her parents hate each other. Her parents hate me. and my parents hate her =/

Oh my...
This is probably why they emphasize the whole "DON'T DRINK UNTIL YOUR 21".

Because, something like this can happen.

Well, I would go with the mother-to-be (MTB),
because I would rather sit on a bed of spikes before I let myself not become a part of my kid's life.

I hate to tell ya dude, but it's sorta both you and the MTB's fault in this happening.
You for getting too drunk,
and hers for wanting sex without any of you having protection.

I would suggest you break it off with your current girlfriend, and if things can never work out for you and the MTB, then go back.

It's your choices.

Now I understand... It's a little too late for me.
Unless she has problems and loses it.
I'd feel horrible though =/

 

[Weatherman Kiyoshi]

She is a junior. year younger.

The thing is. My parents and her parents hate each other. Her parents hate me. and my parents hate her =/

*falls over*

Did fate kick your face or what?
Um...
Of course in that situation everything would go wrong,

Your parents would fight over who got to see the baby the most,
who would be in the delivery room.
Just to point out some of the VERY MILD ones of this situation.

Now I understand... It's a little too late for me.
Unless she has problems and loses it.
I'd feel horrible though =/

*sigh*

Oh well.
However, unless the forces of the universe have everything against you, it will fall into place all on it's own.

A miscarriage is a terrible thing, so I wouldn't put your hope on it.

 

[Honest]

Does your parents know about this?

This seems so sad... Have you thought about abortion?

 

[Syrex]

*falls over*

Did fate kick your face or what?
Um...
Of course in that situation everything would go wrong,

Your parents would fight over who got to see the baby the most,
who would be in the delivery room.
Just to point out some of the VERY MILD ones of this situation.



*sigh*

Oh well.
However, unless the forces of the universe have everything against you, it will fall into place all on it's own.

A miscarriage is a terrible thing, so I wouldn't put your hope on it.

Fate kicked my ass this round.

Yeah, but IDC. If she has it. I'm going to be there.

I refused to be a dead-beat dad who has nothing to do with its child.


@ Bloodex-fire

My parents do not know. her will know today =/

We're both against abortions so, That's not likely.

 

[Mitchman]

Well i give you luck that you dont find someone elses foot kicking you today. And man fate is a ***** sometimes and i am a pure example of it.

 

[Weatherman Kiyoshi]

Fate kicked my ass this round.

Yeah, but IDC. If she has it. I'm going to be there.

I refused to be a dead-beat dad who has nothing to do with its child.


@ Bloodex-fire

My parents do not know. her will know today =/

We're both against abortions so, That's not likely.

Atleast your owning up to the plate.
That's going to be great for you in the long run.

I wonder how they are gonna take it.
Perhaps they'll be speechless, and be thankful you're not going to be a deadbeat dad,
or be extremely angry and refuse you to be anywhere near their daughter again, nevermind the baby.

The only time I will ever suggest abortion is if the girl was raped.

 

[Syrex]

I wish PC had awards for *******s :]

Hoping my liver fails?
Bad parents.

I never blow my lid but seriously get ****ed and GTFO

 

[Penguin13]

So you're going to go against ALL PROVEN MEDICAL SCIENCE and drink before your liver can handle it, especially the amount you claimed you consumed, and get mad at me for pointing that out?

And I call it how I see it.

 

[Syrex]

So you're going to go against ALL PROVEN MEDICAL SCIENCE and drink before your liver can handle it, especially the amount you claimed you consumed, and get mad at me for pointing that out?

And I call it how I see it.

I'd have been fine if you just said the other **** except your liver fails. bad parents.
Do you seriously think that is going to help ME?!
Hell no. Just don't even respond to MY problem. I don't need any of YOUR so-called advice.

Thanks for being such an awesome help. It means so ****ING much to me.

 

[Weatherman Kiyoshi]

^ BYPASSES SWEARING RULES, SYREX ^

1. It's your fault you got her pregnant. She didn't "con" you into it, you consumed alcohol, not only illegally, by way too much for a kid your age. Well, I hope your liver goes, just to teach you a lesson.

Still kinda her fault for wanting sex without a condom or whatever.
It's not fully his fault.

And I think having to raise a human life is enough punishment enough for drinking underage and getting drunk.

2. You sound like you're going to be a terrible father. I mean, underage drinking is not only a first step to more horrible things, but if you're so "grown up" that you want to drink alcohol, you're bound to do some pretty stupid stuff.

Look, if he's willing to own up and help raise his own offspring, let him.
it's not like any other guy the girl meets will be interested in doing so.

You don't even know him personally, so do you have the right to judge?
No, I don't think you do.

3. She looks like a terrible parent. No, I'm not being .. biased or anything, it's just that in my experience, 100% of the people who dress like that, are immature, irresponsible, and definitions 5 and 6 sum it up pretty good: https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=scene

Again, you can't judge someone on apperance or what they have done.
Maybe you should be punished by getting drunk yourself and getting a girl pregnaunt, bad father.

4. You made a horrible decision and you are going to pay for it.

I think he's doing that now, so no need to rub salt in it.

 

[Honest]

Penguin13, stop being a troll? Can't you see the guys not in the best of moods... and for your comment on how people dresses? Please, Thats a load of trash. Syrex, its best to ignore him. Things can't get much worse....

 

[Syrex]

I dress the same way as she does.

I could be a better parent than my aunt!
Her kids love me. I've been taking care of my sisters since i was 12.

My mom was never home. I learned how to cook, clean well, change diapers all that stuff.

I'm a easily fit parent.

 

[OokamiShipper]

There's really no need to be so strict about it, Penguin13, I'm sure he's learned his lesson.
And didn't post his problem here to be flamed at, he posted it to get advice.

Yes, I think it's wise to think about your future and going to college.
It's true that you made a poor choice, but everyone learns from their mistakes, that's what makes us human.

 

[Razer302]

Ignore Penguin13. That really wasn't needed.

Anyway, I think you are handling it well, stepping up to the plate and being responsible for what is happening isn't what a vast majority of people would do. OK you got drunk and made a mistake, what person can say they haven't made mistakes, this one just lead to a lifetime commitment.

There is no reason you can't be a good dad. My mum had me when she was just 17 and she has been successful with herself and has also brought me up well. So age isn't important as long as you understand what you are getting into and are ready to look after the child which you seem ready to do.

 

[Penguin13]

^ BYPASSES SWEARING RULES, SYREX ^



Still kinda her fault for wanting sex without a condom or whatever.
It's not fully his fault.

And I think having to raise a human life is enough punishment enough for drinking underage and getting drunk.


Look, if he's willing to own up and help raise his own offspring, let him.
it's not like any other guy the girl meets will be interested in doing so.

You don't even know him personally, so do you have the right to judge?
No, I don't think you do.



Again, you can't judge someone on apperance or what they have done.
Maybe you should be punished by getting drunk yourself and getting a girl pregnaunt, bad father.



I think he's doing that now, so no need to rub salt in it.

No, it pretty much is his fault for not wearing a condom. If he wasn't so drunk, he would've been able to make a good decision.

No, it's not punishment enough. He should be reported to the local authorities, so they can give him the proper punishment.

I'm not judging his character as a whole, I'm just saying, that because of one bad thing, it can lead to more bad things. Also, just because he stepped up to the plate, doesn't mean he can bat a home run.


Yes, you pretty much can judge a scenester by how they look. And I don't drink, and I always wear a condom, so I don't have much to worry about there. I mean, if the condom does break, an abortion is happening asap.

I'm not rubbing salt in the wound. It doesn't sound like he's fully grasped the magnitude of this situation. Despite what they're saying about still going to college and fulfilling their dreams, a baby, especially at such a young age, can and WILL hold them back. If you want your kid to turn out right, there's really no substitute for a stay-at-home mom and a dad working 9 to 5. if you guys are both going to college and working to support the kid, you won't be there for him much. Also, financial issues are a BIG cause of separating, and that can mess a kid up too. (Everybody: don't tell me you're perfectly fine even though your parents split up, because this is a fact.) So they're either going to have to accept the fact that they're going to be under some serious financial strain (especially with the parents hating everybody, that's not going to work out too well money-wise), or one of them will have to postpone or give up college so they can take care of the baby and help it develop (emotionally, mentally, socially) properly.

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[Weatherman Kiyoshi]

I dress the same way as she does.

I could be a better parent than my aunt!
Her kids love me. I've been taking care of my sisters since i was 12.

My mom was never home. I learned how to cook, clean well, change diapers all that stuff.

I'm a easily fit parent.

See?
You already have experience.

Best to Go to colleage and take clases.

I suggest getting a decent paying job (if you don't have one already).
And get back together with MTB.