Oh, every member here has the right to answer all topics and side topics...and once you stay active you'll be ranked up and finally get to choose your partner.
Also, please do not complain that you are not in the School Kids section and do not ask to be in it, it will only lower your chances. If myself, Goodies, or Marxvile see that you are keeping active and following the rules, you'll be ranked up. Thank you xD
EDIT: With all toddler related topic questions, you can simply answer it as if you had your toddler...and by keeping up your activity a day will come when you get to finally pick it up at the DayCare XD